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I still feel fat. Elusaphi 1 child; Washington 499 posts
4th Mar '13

I gained 50 pounds when pregnant with Ben. I have lost 45. I am 5'3" 120 pounds. I still do not fit into my old pants. I had a c-section and my scar does not bother me at all. I just look at my body and I see fat. My but has always been big. My tummy still looks fat to me and my thighs look like blubber.



Why do I feel this way?

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15946 posts
4th Mar '13

Sometimes you still see yourself the same way even if you lose a ton of weight. It is normal..you see yourself everyday. Your hips might be wider, so harder to get into the size you use to be.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
4th Mar '13

Because you just had a baby. At least you lost the weight, others are struggling.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15946 posts
4th Mar '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" Because you just had a baby. At least you lost the weight, others are struggling."


Just because someone lost most of the weight, doesn't mean they aren't struggling. Why should she worry about others struggling? I have lost all the weight I gained with my second, and I'm still struggling with the way I look and working my ass off to change that.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15946 posts
4th Mar '13
Quoting Just Ames:" So she should be concerned about other people not losing weight :?"


:!:

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
4th Mar '13

Gosh I'm jealous!! I wish I only had 5lbs to go :( lol
Like others have said, pregnancy changes your body. Good for you for losing all that weight though mama! You should be proud! :)

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
4th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" So she should be concerned about other people not losing weight :?"</blockquote>




No I'm just saying she see the positive about it.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
4th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" Just because someone lost most of the weight, doesn't mean they aren't struggling. Why should she worry ... [snip!] ... all the weight I gained with my second, and I'm still struggling with the way I look and working my ass off to change that. "</blockquote>




She shouldn't but she also shouldn't bear herself up

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15946 posts
4th Mar '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" Just because someone lost most of the weight, ... [snip!] ... way I look and working my ass off to change that. "</blockquote> She shouldn't but she also shouldn't bear herself up"


Yeah that is true. I guess I read your response with a negative attitude..one reason I hate the internet LOL.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
4th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" Yeah that is true. I guess I read your response with a negative attitude..one reason I hate the internet LOL. "</blockquote>




Lol I would have too, I should of worded it different.