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Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 7720 posts
status 5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" im not offended i just dont like it to me you chose to abort why should you take credit for that life ... [snip!] ... to conceive and just kept misscarring i would be offended that someone who chose to end a life would consider it an angel baby"</blockquote>




You don't know why they choose to terminate. What if they would die if they stayed pregnant? What if the child had extreme abnormalities and would be born and die immediately? They shouldn't get the same credit in your opinion?

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" im not offended i just dont like it to me you chose to abort why should you take credit for that life ... [snip!] ... to conceive and just kept misscarring i would be offended that someone who chose to end a life would consider it an angel baby"</blockquote>




Oh well that's your opinion and it's not really up to you to decide who is entitled to take "credit" for an angel baby..... and what an absolutely ridiculous way to word it anyway, "credit" I mean come on :roll:

Queen Rowdy TTC since Jan 2013; 1 angel baby; Australia 972 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting Jillian Lindsey:" im not offended i just dont like it to me you chose to abort why should you take credit for that life ... [snip!] ... to conceive and just kept misscarring i would be offended that someone who chose to end a life would consider it an angel baby"


Im certainly not taking "credit". It actually has nothing to do with me, its about remembering a baby. I dont think any baby should be considered as less because of the choices of the mother.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
5th Mar '13

I'd go to 12 weeks ONLY because I feel movement after that. If I knew I wouldn't feel movement until closer to 20 weeks, I'd go as high as that.



Basically, whether or not I can feel movement determines my course of action.



Tricky wording there, by the way. If you want clear and honest answers, don't muddy the question.



I don't care when a woman gets an abortion. As long as she doesn't give birth to a live baby and then kill it, IDGAF because after that it's legally considered murder.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting Secret Service:" When do you feel is a time where you shouldnt have an abortion? Like at what month in the pregnancy. Even if youre for abortion I'm sure you have an opinion."


Well - personally I would try and avoid an abortion after 24 weeks if my life didn't depend on it or the baby was determined to have a terrible quality of life. I don't really care what other people do.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
5th Mar '13

I don't have one.

user banned 1 child; Nunya, CA, United States 6369 posts
5th Mar '13

Pro choice but absolutely HATE abortion and that an insane number of women use it for birth control. I would never get an abortion unless MY life was at risk.



After saying that, I think 8 weeks should be the cutoff point.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" Pro choice but absolutely HATE abortion and that an insane number of women use it for birth control. ... [snip!] ... I would never get an abortion unless MY life was at risk. After saying that, I think 8 weeks should be the cutoff point."

Abortion is birth control though is it not?

user banned 1 child; Nunya, CA, United States 6369 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" Abortion is birth control though is it not?"</blockquote>




I am talking about women who do nothing to prevent a pregnancy and just abort when it happens.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" Abortion is birth control though is it not?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... it not?"</blockquote> I am talking about women who do nothing to prevent a pregnancy and just abort when it happens."


That is such a small percentage of women I don't know why you'd even concern yourself about it...



I mean really, make a poll asking "If you didn't like birth control or condoms, would you still have sex and just abort all of your pregnancies without a qualm?"

user banned 1 child; Nunya, CA, United States 6369 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" That is such a small percentage of women I don't know why you'd even concern yourself about it... ... [snip!] ... you didn't like birth control or condoms, would you still have sex and just abort all of your pregnancies without a qualm?" "</blockquote>




If I concerned myself about it, I wouldn't be pro choice...but, this is a d&d about abortion so I am saying my piece. I know 2 women, myself, who are in my inner circle of friends who have both had multiple abortions. I also worked in an abortion clinic for 6 months when I was only 19. The horrors.

Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
5th Mar '13

20 weeks is what the cut off weekI believe.

empire state of mind New York, New York 12208 posts
5th Mar '13

I'm pro choice at any point during the pregnancy.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" When do you feel is a time where you shouldnt have an abortion? Like at what month in the pregnancy. Even if youre for abortion I'm sure you have an opinion."</blockquote>




Morally? 12 weeks unless there's a medical reason.



Legally? Viability. Unless there's a medical reason.

~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4528 posts
6th Mar '13

My own limit is 14-15 weeks, with the exception of severe fetal abnormalities, or cause of danger for me.



For others? I want to say no limits, but I'd prefer a 28 week limit, and after that the option to deliver the child prematurely.