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going to take pregnancy test in the morning! Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
5th Mar '13

Our son is going to be 5 months on the 12th...and we decided to try for a 2 to 3 year gap in between our babies (more the age difference my husband wanted...me I could do sooner for sure!) Well two weeks ago we didn't use protection(which I had written about before regarding the whole situation) so I'm going to test to see if I am or not...since not having my period yet...can't tell if I'm late lol...so basically...I'm nervous!! Because honestly if its negative I think I'm going to be dissapointed! (even though we talked about the age gap) so obviously I'm going too be happy if its positive...cause now being a mom I know how amazing it is so how could I not be happy? I guess I'm just worried how my husband is going to feel about it if we are, you know, because he is so set on having that 2 to 3 year age difference.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
5th Mar '13

Your husband is a smart man. The bigger the age gap the easier it is. Idk why everyone thinks babies so close in age is so great. Its hard and stressful as hell lol. But gl either way.

Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Your husband is a smart man. The bigger the age gap the easier it is. Idk why everyone thinks babies so close in age is so great. Its hard and stressful as hell lol. But gl either way."</blockquote>



yes he is:-) don't get me wrong I do agree with him on when we should have our second baby...but I would still be happy if I am now...but if I'm not, we are definitely going to be more careful until the time comes when we plan to have our second!!:)

Stefania Papamatheakis 3 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 123 posts
5th Mar '13

I just had my 3rd girl...shes 1 month old...when my first baby was 6 months old i find out that i was pregnant...so when my 2 nd born my first was 14 months...it was hard at first because she walk late she start walking at 14 month...but now their so close they doing everything 2gether...now my first w my last one r 3 years and 4 months apart and w my 2nd 26 months apart..its easier because both helping me they understerstand and my first is potty traning...the day that we came home w the baby she sad im.a big sister now no more diapers,lol....good luck to u!!!