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deleted boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
5th Mar '13

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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
5th Mar '13

Both of you are taking things that were said way too seriously.




And i wouldn't hope for a proposal anytime soon solely based on the fact you're a long distance relationship for now.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Both of you are taking things that were said way too seriously. And i wouldn't hope for a proposal anytime soon solely based on the fact you're a long distance relationship for now."

This.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
5th Mar '13

I honestly stopped reading but all I have to say is STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THE FRG! Its a drama mongering rumor mill. It did nothing but make mine and my soon-to-be MIL's lives hell while SO was deployed. Same with both his SIL's while his brothers were deployed.

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
5th Mar '13

I'm really hurt by what he said

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting bugs mommy☮:" I'm really hurt by what he said"

Then talk to him about it. Either in person or over the phone not by text.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting bugs mommy☮:" I'm really hurt by what he said"


That's perfectly understandable. You both misunderstood each other so its reasonable that there are hurt feelings on both sides. How long have you two been together?

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
5th Mar '13

we have been together over a year ..
I'm about to cry and I'm at work
he got down my throat about the marriage thing
I haven't brought up being married once in at least 6 months. first time was today and it's because he said the "COs wife". I assumed we had to be married?



what do I even say

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
5th Mar '13

Just say you're sorry and you misunderstood and you weren't trying to pressure him about marriage.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
5th Mar '13
Quoting bugs mommy☮:" we have been together over a year .. I'm about to cry and I'm at work he got down my throat about the ... [snip!] ... 6 months. first time was today and it's because he said the "COs wife". I assumed we had to be married? what do I even say"

Just be honest say you really hurt my feelings when you said ______ it hurt because i took it this way _______

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
5th Mar '13

I've never been so mad at him

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bugs mommy☮:</b>" I've never been so mad at him"</blockquote>




What are you the most upset about, specifically?
I'm just trying to better understand so i csn give you advice, because nothing there would make me that upset.

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
5th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting bugs mommy☮:</b>" I've never been so mad at him"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... specifically? I'm just trying to better understand so i csn give you advice, because nothing there would make me that upset."</blockquote>



I never get mad or upset with him. he's really good to me
just feel like what he said was such an a*****e thing to say.
never once do I talk about marriage
and he's making me feel like I'm some crazy girlfriend who pressures him
he was married before so I feel weird about idk