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    • Excessive-report it! -- Votes: 11
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Stacy101 TTA since Mar 2013; 1 child; Japan 8 posts
7th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" I guess if she is the type to shirk responsibility all the time, you might want to consider a new custody ... [snip!] ... the teachers. Who knows. I would hate to assume the worst in someone I don't know. It could be that she is unfit and terrible. "</blockquote>




I try my hardest to see the best in her but this knocks the air outta me. There is no proof that these absences are from doctors visits and if they are then why has my husband not been notify?
I think me may have to just file, but I feel like a total of almost 30 missed school days is excessive considering he has never needed any surgeries or had any major illnesses.

mommymassey 3 kids; Fort Worth, Texas 378 posts
7th Mar '13
Quoting Stacy101:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mommymassey:</b>" sorry i didnt see that you contacted the ... [snip!] ... to address the topic at all. And discussion with her never go well. So that is not an avenue we can go down unfortunately."


in that case I would report it. either way something is going on with her and she needs to be held accountable. Your step son is the one who is going to be on the loosing end if she doesnt step up and take his schooling seriously. I would at the very least report it. You and DH are clearly going to do whats best for him and that is how it should be. Good Luck!!!

Stacy101 TTA since Mar 2013; 1 child; Japan 8 posts
7th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommymassey:</b>" in that case I would report it. either way something is going on with her and she needs to be held accountable. ... [snip!] ... at the very least report it. You and DH are clearly going to do whats best for him and that is how it should be. Good Luck!!!"</blockquote>




Thank you so much!

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
7th Mar '13
Quoting Stacy101:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" I guess if she is the type to shirk responsibility ... [snip!] ... a total of almost 30 missed school days is excessive considering he has never needed any surgeries or had any major illnesses."


I am sorry that this is going on. Hopefully good will come out in the end. The only one to be hurt is the little boy. Good Luck!!