no sex drive tmi M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7598 posts
8th Mar '13

Ive had none at all and I finally gave in to it for the first time it a week and im so sore ik thats tmi but is it normal for me to be hurting down there after sex it feels all swollen

With our first I loved pregnant sex now i just hate it. :(

Again sorry for the tmi and sorry for being a post wh**e

E☮M♥M♫A Due October 7; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Tennessee 2643 posts
8th Mar '13

I feel you. I still have enjoyable sex, but my vagina hates me this time around :( every time afterwards it is swollen and sore. Plus that really thin piece of skin at the bottom of the opening bleeds every single time. So that makes it sting when I get up to pee after.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
8th Mar '13

I get sore if I go a week or longer with out having sex. Its like my vagina just closes back up and it hurts to even have sex.

...lll 1 child; Rutland, Vermont 1400 posts
8th Mar '13

it still hurts me too... i have to have a few in me. (drinks) lol

Mama*Kayla* TTC since Sep 2014; 2 kids; Ontario 314 posts
8th Mar '13

im in the same position, i have no sex drive and when i finally give in i always end up swollen down there for at least two days. :(

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
8th Mar '13

I don't really like sex unless I'm drunk anymore. Luckily for me, DH comes home never (work-related), so we have sex like...once a month, IF that. When we go long enough, I get sore. I think that's pretty normal.

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7598 posts
8th Mar '13

It feels swollen and throbbing ughh :(

jess_Hunter 1 child; California 1413 posts
10th Mar '13

Why don't you check with your doctor? Something should be happening to your vagina especially if you used to enjoy pregnant sex. You may have a little infection. When I was pregnant I used to have that problem after I had stopped having sex, so after a few days in a road it started decreasing.