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MamaDSx2&SDD Due July 8; 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Monroe, Michigan 10018 posts
10th Mar '13

Yep. I had an ex like that.
He was PSYCHO lol

::Nikki:: 1 child; Arkansas 2624 posts
10th Mar '13

Sounds like he has a girlfriend.

loser mom Due June 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10969 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting ::Nikki:::" Sounds like he has a girlfriend."


Or he's gay.

Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
10th Mar '13

so just because he's a guy he can't cry in front of you? Yes, only girls can be scared and cry in front of people.



And yes, I've had a guy cry over me in front of me. I've been married to him for 10 years come August.



Early in our relationship he wasn't sure what he wanted and tried to break up with me. Told me to go back to my parents house for 2 weeks while he thought it over. By the time I made the 6 hour trip home, he'd called (just as I got in the door) and begged me to come home. He was sobbing.
It showed he had a heart and made me love him more. Altho, I did make him squirm and wait the 2 weeks. My mom was extremely ill and it would be the last time I saw her.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" when i ask why he hides it he didnt answer.. he doesnt answer me.. all i get is " im scared, i dont know what a relationship should be like ""


a month or two sure this would work. a YEAR?? hell no. Sounds like he might have something on the side tbh. Orrrrr he really doesn't want to commit.



All the benefits of a girlfriend none of the restraints

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
10th Mar '13

The guy I'm with now is the only guy I've never seen cry over me. He says he has, but pix or it didn't happen.



You can't force him to get into a relationship with you. I waited a year for my guy to ask me to be his GF, we "dated" that whole year, we were in love the whole time, we fought like we were together, but we didn't make it official until a year after we met. 3 years later I'm glad he made me wait. We still have our problems, but we know in the end we're worth working through it all.

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" a month or two sure this would work. a YEAR?? hell no. Sounds like he might have something on the ... [snip!] ... something on the side tbh. Orrrrr he really doesn't want to commit. All the benefits of a girlfriend none of the restraints"

nah i doubt he has a girlfriend.. i just know he doesnt.. hes always home he doesnt even go out with friends... hes just weird.. i was thinking maybe he is gay but then why is he crying over me wouldnt he be ok with moving foward?.. he def doesnt wanna commi..t he said he puts a wall up ..but why???

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
10th Mar '13

I had one boyfriend who cried his eyes out when we broke up. I dumped him because he did bathsalts as a pass time. I didn't find out about it until like a month into our relationship & broke up with him the next day. I don't even think we were together long enough for him to be as "in love" as he thought we were.

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" The guy I'm with now is the only guy I've never seen cry over me. He says he has, but pix or it didn't ... [snip!] ... 3 years later I'm glad he made me wait. We still have our problems, but we know in the end we're worth working through it all."

but im sure that whole year u did things , no? he hasnt taken me on a date.. he doesnt go out at all.. i always have to make plans... i see him once or twice a month.. its so weirddddddddd all we do is text all day

loser mom Due June 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10969 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" nah i doubt he has a girlfriend.. i just know he doesnt.. hes always home he doesnt even go out with ... [snip!] ... is he crying over me wouldnt he be ok with moving foward?.. he def doesnt wanna commi..t he said he puts a wall up ..but why???"


So.... does he take you out on dates?

Jessica + 2 34 kids; Texas 7364 posts
10th Mar '13

i must attract sensitive men because all my past bfs have cried....alot. My hubby cries as well lol

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting loser mom:" So.... does he take you out on dates? "


nope.... hasn't...

loser mom Due June 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10969 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" but im sure that whole year u did things , no? he hasnt taken me on a date.. he doesnt go out at all.. ... [snip!] ... go out at all.. i always have to make plans... i see him once or twice a month.. its so weirddddddddd all we do is text all day"


Well that answered my question.




Honestly, I think he's just using you for sex.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" but im sure that whole year u did things , no? he hasnt taken me on a date.. he doesnt go out at all.. ... [snip!] ... go out at all.. i always have to make plans... i see him once or twice a month.. its so weirddddddddd all we do is text all day"


Yeah.. That's weird. We were always together. I met his parents at like 10 months of us dating. I didn't realize when you said he didn't tell anyone you guys don't actually go out. That's weird.



I'd probably dig out. There's something weird about that. Being scared can only be used as an excuse for so long. My dude wouldn't commit because he "didn't want a gf" but I always prevail.

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Jessica Lea Bell:" i must attract sensitive men because all my past bfs have cried....alot. My hubby cries as well lol"


awww.. i like that hes sensitive but he wants me to stay but doesnt put effort and do what i want