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☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70787 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" no i never did.. and ur right.. 100 %.. im jus gonna tell him im not waiting and to contact me when he ready for a REAL relationship and if im single great if not his loss"


I know it's easier said than done, believe me. Everyone told me I needed to ditch Matt because he made me wait so long. But we actually went out and I hung out with his friends, with his parents, we went on trips. Your situation just seems off.

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" I know it's easier said than done, believe me. Everyone told me I needed to ditch Matt because he made ... [snip!] ... But we actually went out and I hung out with his friends, with his parents, we went on trips. Your situation just seems off."


thanks :)

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
10th Mar '13

The man I'm with now has cried a few times in front of me. I told him to suck it up, his p***y was showing.



I'm kidding. He cried (happy tears) when I told him I was pregnant. (For some reason, he was worried he couldn't make spawn. His ex wasn't on birth control and they didn't get pregnant in 6 years. I belive he just has a guardian angel ;)) and then a few months later worried we wouldn't be able to afford the kid.



But I consider those legitimate reasons. If this dude has been keeping you waiting a year of his own choice and is still making excuses...I'd be rolling out.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting a s h l e y.:" The man I'm with now has cried a few times in front of me. I told him to suck it up, his p***y was showing. ... [snip!] ... reasons. If this dude has been keeping you waiting a year of his own choice and is still making excuses...I'd be rolling out."


LOL i was mad at DH once and told him to plug up his vag and he was acting like as soppy wet vag >_>



I'm pretty non emotional haha

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" LOL i was mad at DH once and told him to plug up his vag and he was acting like as soppy wet vag >_> I'm pretty non emotional haha"



Sometimes, when he gets mad at me, I tell him to get the sand out of his cat.
He loves it. Really.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting a s h l e y.:" Sometimes, when he gets mad at me, I tell him to get the sand out of his cat. He loves it. Really."



hahaha glad i'm not the only mean one xD

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting a s h l e y.:" The man I'm with now has cried a few times in front of me. I told him to suck it up, his p***y was showing. ... [snip!] ... reasons. If this dude has been keeping you waiting a year of his own choice and is still making excuses...I'd be rolling out."


lol ur right. :(

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting xOx LaUrA xOx:" lol ur right. :("



It sounds like he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. Have a girl who cares about him, who he obviously enjoys, but without having to worry about the opinions of his friends and family. It's time to let him know it doesn't work that way.



3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" hahaha glad i'm not the only mean one xD"


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one of each 4 me Due January 8; TTC since Mar 2014; 3 kids; Ohio 6198 posts
status 10th Mar '13

my husband cries easily actually. it seems like he just gets in the mood sometimes to cry and he does for anything.

Derp Due January 10; 1 child; Camp Lejeune, NC, United States 11586 posts
status 10th Mar '13

I've only ever seen my husband legitimately cry once and that was when our son was born. The only other time he came close to crying was when we were saying our wedding vows and tears formed in his eyes. I actually have a photo of that very moment:



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I definitely had a few tears roll down my face at that point so I closed my eyes for a second or looked up a lot to keep them back (as did he), especially during our toasts.



As for other men? Oh yeah. I've seen my father cry plenty of times. He cried when he gave me to my husband, his eyes welled up with tears when he saw his first and only grandchild for the first time, he has cried during really intimate speeches, he often tears up when he talks about his mother, etc. When it comes to boyfriends I've seen quite a few of them cry a couple times each. The last one I dated before my husband only cried once though and that was when I broke up with him. The others cried during big fights or break ups and usually there was alcohol involved, heh.

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
11th Mar '13

I seem to always be the tougher one in the relationship, surprisingly. Almost every guy I've dated has cried in front of me before I've cried in front of them.. and they're not the overly-sensitive guys you'd think would be the type to cry, they're just.. regular guys.

xOx LaUrA xOx 1 child; Brooklyn, New York 1083 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Derp:" I've only ever seen my husband legitimately cry once and that was when our son was born. The only other ... [snip!] ... was when I broke up with him. The others cried during big fights or break ups and usually there was alcohol involved, heh. "



aww beautiful picture!!!