So the other day my SO bought me gorgeous flowers and I was so thrilled because lately it seems like I'm invisible to him. But since then it has just been getting worse. Yesterday he spent all day with his friends so I asked if he would spend some time with me today and he promised he would but today he took his friend to town and they went to future shop and got dinner, so I was just like K whatever. Then finally I ask if he would like to watch a movie with me and his response was "quit pestering me, I'm not falling for your guilt trip" like wtf so I watched the new twilight alone and now I feel like a bag of shit. Oh and we haven't slept in the same bed in months. Getting pretty lonely. He only buys me things to keep me quiet.
Why are you staying in a relationship like this?
Really starting to ask myself that a lot lately.
Doesn't sound like a relationship as much as a holding pattern.
Quoting Belle.:" Really starting to ask myself that a lot lately."
Why lately? Obviously it's been going on for a long time.
Would you go into a relationship if this is how they treated you?
That sounds like a horrible relationship, if one at all, you have one of two choices leave/kick him out, or basically live with it like you are now. I lived in that kind of relationship with my daughters father for a long time, but that what i thought a relationship was suppose to be. Don't waste your time on a relationship that you are putting more into then the other.