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Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Lizz "Waddles" Casillas:" Consider yourself lucky. My husband wanted it ALL thru my pregnancy, and I pretty much lost my sex drive. ... [snip!] ... 4 cm dilated & lost my mucous plug, and uncomfortable as hell. Sex & freakin blowjobs are the last things on my mind."


the opposite has happened to me. I've never wanted to do him so much! Like as soon as I got pregnant it was like this and I'm no less ready to jump his bones now that I am further a long. Haha. Maybe when I get closer to 35 or so weeks.

Elizzabeth Baker Due July 26; 1 child; Norman, Oklahoma 21 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting That one chick.:" the opposite has happened to me. I've never wanted to do him so much! Like as soon as I got pregnant ... [snip!] ... this and I'm no less ready to jump his bones now that I am further a long. Haha. Maybe when I get closer to 35 or so weeks."

Haha, maybe. Everybody's different. But I completely understand what you mean. Being pregnant makes you feel somewhat unsexy & undesirable on its own, and then to have a partner who doesn't wanna do anything sexual with you definitely doesn't help. I would just talk to him about it & see what's up. He might just be afraid that it's gonna hurt you or the baby, or he might just be too focused on the baby to really get turned on enough to want to. Either way, he should at least show you a little bit of attention so that you don't feel unwanted. If I could somehow share the attention I get from my husband with you, I would. That fool gives me way too much. Lol

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting Lizz "Waddles" Casillas:" Haha, maybe. Everybody's different. But I completely understand what you mean. Being pregnant makes you ... [snip!] ... unwanted. If I could somehow share the attention I get from my husband with you, I would. That fool gives me way too much. Lol"


Haha :]
He says he really doesn't know why. Oh well, he's been being more friendly at least.

Elizzabeth Baker Due July 26; 1 child; Norman, Oklahoma 21 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting That one chick.:" Haha :] He says he really doesn't know why. Oh well, he's been being more friendly at least."

That's good. At least he's not ignoring you completely.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
16th Mar '13

Dunno.
My husband couldn't keep his hands to himself all 4 times. :x His sex drive goes insanely high when I'm pregnant.