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Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5471 posts
12th Mar '13

It's ultimately your choice, but if I were you I would get an abortion. I have custody of my little sister and she is about to be 14. I could not imagine her trying to raise a child at her age. It would honestly break my heart seeing her, at 14, go through all the struggles that go along with having a baby. I had DD when I was 19 and it was fucking hard even though we already had a house and DH had a good job. It's going to change your life forever no matter what you do, you just have to look at all your options and think about what road you want to take. Good luck though.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a fucking idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."


Hopefully she's from Canada! lol

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a fucking idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."

you can get an abortion in Nevada up to 24 weeks I believe..

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion ... [snip!] ... paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote> Doesn't she have until 22 weeks or something in some states?"</blockquote>



Eh not really. It might be technically legal in a few states, but I doubt she'd get anyone to do it.

Ellie Goulding 1 child; London, --, United Kingdom 4742 posts
12th Mar '13

yeah there is no way you can get an abortion this late in the game.
if it were me, i'd meet with an adoption counselor ASAP.
Good luck.

user banned New York 15996 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S+K=R [37 WEEKS!]:</b>" Hopefully she's from Canada! lol"</blockquote>




:lol:

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
12th Mar '13

,If you don't want one, don't get one. Also, check your state to make sure you can actually get an abortion this far along. The limit where I am is 12 weeks

user banned New York 15996 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting VeggieBurglar:</b>" yeah there is no way you can get an abortion this late in the game. if it were me, i'd meet with an adoption counselor ASAP. Good luck."</blockquote>




There's places that'll do it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36627 posts
status 12th Mar '13
Quoting Squid Kid:" Your boyfriend wanted you to get pregnant at 14?"

thats what I was thinking...



Id go through with an abortion than to raise a child at 14. You have ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
12th Mar '13

No one can FORCE you to get an abortion, but you are 14 years old. You can't drive, can't work a FT job, are barely in high school and your boyfriend knocked you up on purpose. If you keep this baby and get kicked out like your parents say they will do, how will you support this child? You say your boyfriend doesn't want you to suffer if you get kicked out for keeping this baby, but what did you think was going to happen? Did you think your parents were just going to let you live with them, while they pay for and raise your child? No... that's not how it works. You have babies when you are stable, mature and capable of actually raising a child. Not at 14 years old when you haven't experienced anything yet.

Justus17 Due September 28 (twins); Great Falls, Montana 30 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a fucking idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote>




That was a typo I'm 6 weeks sorry

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Eh not really. It might be technically legal in a few states, but I doubt she'd get anyone to do it."


My ex-best friend got an abortion at 23 weeks in Las vegas. She had to pay more but she had no problem finding someone to do it..

Mom of 4 Little Boys! 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Hillsboro, Oregon 4849 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a fucking idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."


I'd have to completely agree! What is wrong with kids today? At 14 I was still all giggly over boys and JUST kissing was a big deal. We certainly weren't out having sex at that age. SMH!

JΔ$ Georgia 76645 posts
status 12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Justus17:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion ... [snip!] ... in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote> That was a typo I'm 6 weeks sorry"</blockquote>




Oh that's better.



Anyway, who will be providing for this kid? Can't be you...you can't work.

Monsters² Mom 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dahlgren, VA, United States 5020 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Justus17:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion ... [snip!] ... in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote> That was a typo I'm 6 weeks sorry"


Then just get the abortion before you get much farther along. Do you honestly think at 14 you're old enough or mature enough to raise a child? You're still a child yourself. Not to mention like another poster said you can't even drive yourself to the hospital! There is so much more to get out of life at 14!