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Krystal Shelton 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Tatum, TX, United States 153 posts
12th Mar '13

At your age you need to think about what is in the best interest for the baby and the baby alone. I agree with the others and adoption is best. Open adoption would even work and you can see your child grow up. If you want to keep this baby then I suggest parenting classes, advice/help from experienced mothers and lots of thinking. If your parents do kick you out then foster care for you and your baby would be in store and your boyfriend and you will not be together. I would like to know as well how old he is and what kind of job does he actually have. Ultimately it is up to you just know that you have another human being to think about and its not about you anymore.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Justus17:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion ... [snip!] ... in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote> That was a typo I'm 6 weeks sorry"</blockquote>




Then you can get an abortion.



Think about what kind of life you can realistically provide for a baby at 14. Think about whether you want to be tied to your current boyfriend for 18 years, whether you two break up or not.



What would you say if this was YOUR 14 yr old daughter?

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
12th Mar '13

Babies having babies. I'd deff seriously consider the abortion.




Who the f**k wants to get knocked up at 14? Good lord. I wasn't even THINKING about sex at 14.

JΔS Georgia 74367 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystal Shelton:</b>" At your age you need to think about what is in the best interest for the baby and the baby alone. I ... [snip!] ... have. Ultimately it is up to you just know that you have another human being to think about and its not about you anymore."</blockquote>



Open adoption is subject to close at any time. Just throwing that out there.

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Justus17:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion ... [snip!] ... in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote> That was a typo I'm 6 weeks sorry"</blockquote>



Oh! Then abortion or adoption. At your age i'd recommend the abortion because adoption is a very hard thing to go through with when you want the baby

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" Babies having babies. I'd deff seriously consider the abortion. Who the f**k wants to get knocked up at 14? Good lord. I wasn't even THINKING about sex at 14."


I was lol :oops:

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Krystal Shelton:" At your age you need to think about what is in the best interest for the baby and the baby alone. I ... [snip!] ... have. Ultimately it is up to you just know that you have another human being to think about and its not about you anymore."

Adoption isnt the greatest thing. I dont think at 14 she would be able to handle adoption.



& Like Jas just said, open adoptions are not legally binding.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5381 posts
12th Mar '13

I honestly have to say when people jump in and say "there is no one who will perform an abortion past 10/13/16/19 weeks so you can't get one!" it is the most stupid statements that can be made on here. This the WORLD WIDE WEB and the world's laws certainly don't revolve around your particular States laws. The girl hasn't stated where she loves and could be from anywhere.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting S+K=R [37 WEEKS!]:" I was lol :oops:"


hahahaha. I may have been thinking about boys...but the idea of sex grossed me out.



I was like ewwww he wants to put what in my what?!? Thats nasty lol

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" Babies having babies. I'd deff seriously consider the abortion. Who the f**k wants to get knocked up at 14? Good lord. I wasn't even THINKING about sex at 14."


:!:

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" I honestly have to say when people jump in and say "there is no one who will perform an abortion past ... [snip!] ... certainly don't revolve around your particular States laws. The girl hasn't stated where she loves and could be from anywhere."</blockquote>




You can exactly call anyone stupid when you're struggling to form complete sentences.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5381 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystal Shelton:</b>" At your age you need to think about what is in the best interest for the baby and the baby alone. I ... [snip!] ... have. Ultimately it is up to you just know that you have another human being to think about and its not about you anymore."</blockquote>




You don't know where she lives yet so telling her about how "open adoption" is such a great thing is a waste of time as there is no such thing as "open adoption" in some countries.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Little Bit's Momma:" hahahaha. I may have been thinking about boys...but the idea of sex grossed me out. I was like ewwww he wants to put what in my what?!? Thats nasty lol"


I had an extremely manipulative boyfriend who I was scared was going to leave me if we didn't have sex lol :roll: I think I was 15 actually lol but still, a young little twerp!! I'm almost 20 and I'd probably still be a virgin today if I didn't lose my virginity that afternoon lmao.

Krystal Shelton 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Tatum, TX, United States 153 posts
12th Mar '13

I was going off of 16 weeks pregnant at the time but since its 6 weeks abortion is best. Being emotionally stable to handle any option at 14 is going to be rougher than hell especially since your boyfriend and you thought somewhere in the back of your mind becoming parents was actually a good idea. It screams that you might already have some issues that you need to work through. Good luck to you though

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Krystal Shelton:</b>" At your age you need to think about what ... [snip!] ... how "open adoption" is such a great thing is a waste of time as there is no such thing as "open adoption" in some countries."</blockquote>




You're right. f**k giving helpful advice until we run a background check.