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Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a fucking idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."


ALL OF THIS!

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" I honestly have to say when people jump in and say ... [snip!] ... be from anywhere."</blockquote> You can exactly call anyone stupid when you're struggling to form complete sentences."</blockquote>




I could say the same to you about that statement right there :)



Anyway I'm on my phone and trying to type quickly, I'm not overly concerned about proof reading, thanks though!

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
12th Mar '13

He was TRYING to get you pregnant at 14?!? That is absurd in every way! He clearly does not have his head on straight, how old is he? If you absolutely dont want an abortion, dont get it. But i highly recommend considering adoption.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting S+K=R [37 WEEKS!]:" I had an extremely manipulative boyfriend who I was scared was going to leave me if we didn't have sex ... [snip!] ... young little twerp!! I'm almost 20 and I'd probably still be a virgin today if I didn't lose my virginity that afternoon lmao. "



boys are stupid to say the least. =[

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19036 posts
status 12th Mar '13

Ultimately it's your choice. But as a teen mother who got pregnant at 17 I can tell you that abortion or adoption are really your best choices.
I know you hate to hear it, we all did at that age, but you are still a child. A maturing child but a child none the less.
You still have high school to experience, prom, parties, friends to make, more boyfriends to experience. And with a baby a lot of that is going to not be possible to experience to the fullest.
I LOVE my children. But if I could go back in time and just have them a few years later I think that everyone would be happier.
Having a child is not just something to do because it's cool or cute. It changes your WHOLE life and the way you get to live it.
This is a hard situation that you and your boyfriend have put yourselves in. And an even harder one for your parents because I'm sure they don't want this for you. But you need to make a decision.
Either way. I wish you the best of luck.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" ... [snip!] ... right there :) Anyway I'm on my phone and trying to type quickly, I'm not overly concerned about proof reading, thanks though!"</blockquote>




I'm not calling anyone stupid. That's the point.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Mar '13

How old is your boyfriend?

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
12th Mar '13

It sounds like you really want this baby, and are really unsure about abortion. I would say think about adoption? yes its hard but being able to see your baby grow up is a good reward. You don't wanna have an abortion and wonder, "what if"?

*Anners* 3 kids; Texas 12319 posts
12th Mar '13

Lord, does your bf have a hole in his head? You're a baby yourself. His little job isn't going to pay for a baby. And you're going to go crazy being 14 with a child. Just saying. I would look into adoption.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" It sounds like you really want this baby, and are really unsure about abortion. I would say think about ... [snip!] ... yes its hard but being able to see your baby grow up is a good reward. You don't wanna have an abortion and wonder, "what if"?"


There is ALWAYS that "what if"..........................

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36627 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" It sounds like you really want this baby, and are really unsure about abortion. I would say think about ... [snip!] ... yes its hard but being able to see your baby grow up is a good reward. You don't wanna have an abortion and wonder, "what if"?"


Ok question.. so she wouldnt have the whatifs if she did adoption? So it would be a complete happy time while doing adoption?? :roll:

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36627 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting S+K=R [37 WEEKS!]:" There is ALWAYS that "what if".......................... "


Seriously...

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... overly concerned about proof reading, thanks though!"</blockquote> I'm not calling anyone stupid. That's the point."</blockquote>




Oh well congratulations! I personally do think it's stupid to automatically assume that the laws that cover your state cover the entire World, here she could get an abortion up until 24 weeks no problems and at anytime after that for medical reasons. Did I say that whilst typing fast on my phone and didn't check what I had written, yes. Oh well silly me, I'm sure we'll all get over it.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
12th Mar '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Ok question.. so she wouldnt have the whatifs if she did adoption? So it would be a complete happy time while doing adoption?? :roll: "


You can do an open adoption.

JΔ$ Georgia 76638 posts
12th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TnT+1:</b>" You can do an open adoption."</blockquote>



Did you miss the part when I said that open adoptions are subject to close at any time?