Quoting mrssenorita:" but i do visit his office sometimes and meet his staff , I knew his staff as we had been to newyork an dother places too for my husband's office party"
An office party, for the employees, is completely different than a baby shower. So you have met his staff. Still doesn't make it appropriate for him to invite them to his home like that.
anyway thanks ladies!! i am sure we will have nice time on that day. people think and see in a different way, i dont care...
Seriously, why even bother asking for advice if you plan on completely ignoring it?
We actually had a friend that used colored fortune cookies for their baby shower with a custom message. They let the company know the gender of the baby and then for the big reveal at the shower...it was a boy so blue fortune cookies! What a great idea.