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First Thread . Army wife . Yasmine BabyFlatout Due July 21 (girl); Arlington, Virginia 21 posts
13th Mar '13

New to this site , I'm 18 married, lets say life has brought me through many ups and downs and still am but i am blessed with a baby girl on the way due july 22, and a wonderful husband. I have a lot of people that judge me telling me i have rushed into a relationship i will get a divorce i will not take care of my baby being i am so young. But as of now i am happy living in a apartment together getting to know each other more and more every day. I love my life even though sometimes it feels as though it crumbles. I have a 8 month old puppy pit bull , thats another topic people think they have a voice to express there opinions on . I guess I made this to let tensions out , lets stress out, and just share about my views and my pregnancy.
Now about my baby girl
i am now 21 weeks pregnant i am so excited for my baby girl !! Leah James is the name me and my husband picked still working on a middle name.. Leah is a very healthy baby , and big !! lol Leah loves kicking and punching mommy as much as possible she is a mess. I have been through a lot with this little girl and she is mommys little fighter ! i LOVE you mama!!:P:wink:207q651.jpg

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
13th Mar '13

Your husband would rather do "his own thing" and you're happily married? Are you being honest with yourself about your self worth and the state of your relationship?



And a name is a name, but out of curiosity, why is the middle name a boys name?

Aiden,Jared&Olivia's momm 35 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 686 posts
13th Mar '13

Welcome to BG...And pay no mind to Red Bottom..She's always got something smart ass to say or negative..Congrats on the baby girl!

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Your husband would rather do "his own thing" and you're happily married? Are you being honest with yourself ... [snip!] ... self worth and the state of your relationship? And a name is a name, but out of curiosity, why is the middle name a boys name?"</blockquote>




I thought James was the last name and they didn't have a middle yet?
I was confused on this though. Didn't know if the middle or last was James, so I just assumed.

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Your husband would rather do "his own thing" and you're happily married? Are you being honest with yourself ... [snip!] ... self worth and the state of your relationship? And a name is a name, but out of curiosity, why is the middle name a boys name?"</blockquote>



Tha last name is james. She said they were still deciding on a middle name. I was going to ask the same question at first lol

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Your husband would rather do "his own thing" ... [snip!] ... Tha last name is james. She said they were still deciding on a middle name. I was going to ask the same question at first lol"</blockquote>




Oh okay.



Then new suggestion, don't put your last name on the interwebz.

Yasmine BabyFlatout Due July 21 (girl); Arlington, Virginia 21 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting aiden&jared'smommy:" Welcome to BG...And pay no mind to Red Bottom..She's always got something smart ass to say or negative..Congrats on the baby girl!"

lmao i ignored her post .. thank youu <3

Yasmine BabyFlatout Due July 21 (girl); Arlington, Virginia 21 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Your husband would rather do "his own thing" ... [snip!] ... they didn't have a middle yet? I was confused on this though. Didn't know if the middle or last was James, so I just assumed."


Last name is James , still haven't decided on a middle!!

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting aiden&jared'smommy:</b>" Welcome to BG...And pay no mind to Red Bottom..She's always got something smart ass to say or negative..Congrats on the baby girl!"</blockquote>




You think it's negative to tell a pregnant married 18 yr old that she deserves more than a husband who "wants to do his own thing?"

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yasmine BabyFlatout:</b>" Last name is James , still haven't decided on a middle!!"</blockquote>




I'd take your last name off of here so no one googles you and finds your account. Everything you post is searchable.

Aiden,Jared&Olivia's momm 35 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 686 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting aiden&jared'smommy:</b>" Welcome to BG...And pay no mind to ... [snip!] ... think it's negative to tell a pregnant married 18 yr old that she deserves more than a husband who "wants to do his own thing?""


Um, yeah I do. I swear u never have anything positive to say.

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting aiden&jared'smommy:</b>" Um, yeah I do. I swear u never have anything positive to say."</blockquote>




That's really sad. You should want better for people.

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting aiden&jared'smommy:</b>" Welcome to BG...And pay no mind to Red Bottom..She's always got something smart ass to say or negative..Congrats on the baby girl!"</blockquote>



You must not have been here long. Red Bottom isn't as terrible as you make her out to be. Most people can't take the blunt truth & want everyone to sugar coat it. If you happen to run into a couple other mamas on here, you'll see what true negativity is

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36521 posts
13th Mar '13

How is james the last name when your last name is shown on the U/S? Also, how are you happily married when he does his own thing? That isnt being happily married.

Aiden,Jared&Olivia's momm 35 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 686 posts
13th Mar '13

I do I just don't point it out the way u do.