JΔ$ Georgia 76650 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" I want to say thank you. You are probably the only person who has answered my question without being rude and making me feel worthless. "</blockquote>



Who's being rude? We are telling you to be realistic since ya know...WE live on our own and know a little something about finances.

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 45797 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" can find a decent paying job with out going to school and quiting would send a terrible example to my children! "</blockquote>




having 2 kids before 18 is not an example for your children either

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
13th Mar '13

I would look into getting another job, one that would pay a few hundred a week. It is what you will need to get by on your own. You can find cheap supplies on craigslist, local churches, yard sales, etc. You can call 211 from your phone to ask for resources as well, they might have job placement places & resources for baby items. And yes, please get on birth control once you have your second child, you are good to go for awhile kid count wise!

Squeaky McGee [13 wks] Due May 7; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 65495 posts
status 13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" I thought this site was to help people not tear them down and make them feel worthless about themselves. "</blockquote>




It's called reality. Sugar coating the truth isn't doing you any favors. Life is expensive. Reality is expensive.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting AngelosBoo:" you can when your fiance sends you 100 every week as well. and I have 200 I am mostly looking for some cheap furnishings so I can move closer to him. "

Let this be an early Adult lesson.... Don't ever depend on another person for money. It's very likely that the day you need it the most, will be the day it can't be sent. Always have something to fall back on.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104966 posts
status 13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" I thought this site was to help people not tear them down and make them feel worthless about themselves. "</blockquote>




You're thinking like a child. Stop. You need to be an adult now



You can not support two children om your own with $200 a month. Think realistically. Because right now, you're not doing that

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting AngelosBoo:" I am still in high school and I do have a job. I babysit making 100 a week from one family. He has a ... [snip!] ... a car seat, tons of clothes and toys. He has a highchair but it is kind of broken. And I don't really appreciate the language. "


And I don't appreciate people irresponsibly bringing children into the world that they can't provide for or properly take care of. Stay at home with mommy.. 100 dollars a week? That is a JOKE. That will get you diapers and formula for two kids and not much else.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
13th Mar '13

Can you move in with your boyfriend?



When I moved out I spent almost 8k on everything. Bond, 4 weeks in advance, household goods, furniture, towels etc, first grocery shop. It's not cheap. I didn't buy second hand but my partner and I makes combined 150k a year and we are sometimes stretching it, with one child. (I live in aus so those amounts sound a lot but our cost of living is higher to. Rent is about 330 a week when we were renting. )Your "wage" would barely cover your rent utilities and groceries I am assuming

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting AngelosBoo:" I thought this site was to help people not tear them down and make them feel worthless about themselves. "


life is hard....this site is not to flower you with rainbows and sunshine with little unicorn kisses.....no. We will tell you how it is..and you can't live off 100 a week...you just can't.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 18197 posts
status 13th Mar '13

Do you even know if you are pregnant? Your profile that you made today says you "think."



And I think you would probably know where to get bargain stuff by now being already a parent. :/



Instead of filling us with all these details that would probably lead off subject, you could of been like, "I don't have much money, where can I pick up a cheap/free carseat."

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
13th Mar '13

Would you even be able TO rent an apartment or something closer to your boyfriend since you're not 18 yet? You don't make enough to live by yourself, and if you move to be closer to your boyfriend, wouldn't you also lose that job therefore have NO income except what your boyfriend might send you?

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 123055 posts
status 13th Mar '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You havent thought about this fully. There is nowhere in the world that would rent to a 17 year old. If I was you I would probably get an abortion if you were early enough to do so. "


Whats with you always suggesting abortion so casually and carefree? Its like Bea 2.0

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
13th Mar '13
Quoting AngelosBoo:" I thought this site was to help people not tear them down and make them feel worthless about themselves. "

No, you need to think as an Adult now. You're a teenager, pregnant with your second child and you can't even support yourself and the one you have. Of course people are going to say something.

JΔ$ Georgia 76650 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" I thought this site was to help people not tear them down and make them feel worthless about themselves. "</blockquote>



You are in control of your own emotions. No one is making you feel like anything. We're trying to help you. Well I am....you're still a bit if a kid. You have no idea what it's like to live on your own so I am telling you that 200 biweekly is NOT going to cut it.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
13th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AngelosBoo:</b>" and kill an innocent child.... that would never happen... "</blockquote>




It's not a child yet but whatever