I had a drunken one nightstand and got pregnant advice? Youngtroubledgirl14 Due October 20; Japan 11 posts13th Mar
He was one of my middle school teacher. I've always had a crush on him. I never thought he felt the same about me. It was really serendipitous. i didn't really regret that I hooked up with him. he didn't talk to me afterwards he just forgot all about me but yeah now it turns out I'm pregnant. He's been married to his wife for over 20 years and has 3 boys with her. I told him he demanded I get an abortion and I know that's what my parents will want. But I don't really like abortion only in like r**e i****t deformality or health reasons. He doesn't seem to care about me though he only cares about me getting an abortion I know he'll forget all about me after the abortion. But I like having his attention since I told him. I've actually agreed to get an abortion if he comes with but I honestly don't want it. But I don't even know really what kind of mom I'd be especially single and all. My family wouldn't want me to have a baby. Idk I've confused mostly. Advice? Oh yeah, I know I did wrong by sleeping with a married man but it doesn't really change this really the reality and all. I feel like my parents are going to say I need an abortion. I am too scared to tell them. And I feel like so alone and depressed to have a child with someone who wants nothing to do with me and a guy who's devoted to another woman but I hate it he hates our child but has 3 kids with her. I feel like running away but I have nowhere to go. And Idk I hate that I have to hide away from him and our families. Advice?
☮ Phuket 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30468 posts13th Mar
I have no advice, except its always a bad idea to sleep with your teacher. Unless he is Ezra Fitts. Lol
Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts13th Mar
While it was wrong to sleep with a married man knowing he's married...I wouldn't let anyone pressure you into an abortion if that's not what you want.
Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts13th Mar
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I have no advice, except its always a bad idea to sleep with your teacher. Unless he is Ezra Fitts. Lol"
Lmao. I <3 pretty little liars.
Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom 2 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 14528 posts13th Mar
I'd abort so fast, it'd likely make your head spin
Killingℬird 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 9953 posts13th Mar
Don't do it if its not what you want. If he doesn't want to be in the babies life, fine, but he shouldn't force you. Either way its going to be hard. Good luck.
Subtle As A Hurricane Due February 2; 1 child; Texas 4117 posts13th Mar
You should only get an abortion if that's what you want to do. Just be prepared if he doesn't want anything to do with the baby.
Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts13th Mar
If you dont want an abortion dont get one. Only YOU can make that choice for you because you are the only one that has to live with it for the rest of your life. If you decide to keep the baby you can go after him for child support. Although in your situation I would seriously consider abortion or adoption. How old are you? You need to tell your parents so they can help you.
JenD3115 Due September 10; 3 kids; Cowden, Illinois 25 posts13th Mar
I don't know if adoption is an option or not, but that might be your best route. I don't believe in abortion either, but I also don't believe that someone who's young an makes a mistake should have to pay for it for the rest of their lives either. And neither should the child. I'd talk to my parents and be completely honest about everything I'm feeling. I did this once, and was completely surprised about how they reacted. Of course they said what I though they would, but were very understanding and supportive and it really helped me make the right choice for me and my future.
zombie. 2 kids; Leadville, Colorado 23606 posts13th Mar
Hes been married longer than youve been born :lol:
Turtley Mikey Due October 30; 2 kids; California 50606 posts13th Mar
Honey, he never had feelings for you like you may have thought. He's a man, he just wanted sex. Honestly hon, I'd abort and never associate with that tool ever again.
Historymomma 2 kids; La Grange, North Carolina 403 posts13th Mar
It seems the reason you want this child is because you like the attention you are receiving from this, married, man. That is no reason to bring a child into the world, and this fetus could severely screw up the lives and well being of this man's existing children... Seems like a pretty clear choice.
Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts13th Mar
Quoting Subtle As A Hurricane:" You should only get an abortion if that's what you want to do. Just be prepared if he doesn't want anything to do with the baby."