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"hi honey" Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2327 posts
14th Mar '13

how would you feel if you looked through your mans phone and saw a text from an unsaved local number that says "hi honey lol"? i am livid. yeah i shouldnt of gone through his phone but that shouldnt be in his phone amyways. theres been.multiple calls to that number also. also.he wont let me.take his truck to work.anymore which is weird and all kinds of my money is being spent. idk what to.do.
sorry for typos my phone is acting up tonight.

Loretta West [+1] Due March 26 (boy); TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 6809 posts
status 14th Mar '13

I would be demanding an explanation. That isn't right. Especially if money is unaccounted for.

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2327 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" I would be demanding an explanation. That isn't right. Especially if money is unaccounted for."</blockquote>




$122 is overdrafted in our acct. he says its gas but theres no way.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
14th Mar '13

I'd flat out ask. I don't go through my SO's phone anyway, but if I notice money gone out of the account and I don't recognize the charge, I ask him what it is.



If you ask him, don't be confrontational, be as calm and rational as possible.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" I would be demanding an explanation. That isn't ... [snip!] ... if money is unaccounted for."</blockquote> $122 is overdrafted in our acct. he says its gas but theres no way."


You can get details of the transactions, that will say where the money went. Some of it is overdraft fees, though.

Sour Daisy 1 child; Kennewick, Washington 7208 posts
14th Mar '13

Fuck that, I'd confront him.

saageex3 1 child; New York 5789 posts
14th Mar '13

I would be super suspicious. Obviously he knows the person well enough for them to call him honey and the fact that the number isn't saved probably means its a girl so he won't save it invade for some reason you ever have to go through his contacts. Whether you snooped or not, even though you invaded his privacy, something definitely is going on

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2327 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PurpleBama582:</b>" I'd flat out ask. I don't go through my SO's phone anyway, but if I notice money gone out of the account ... [snip!] ... recognize the charge, I ask him what it is. If you ask him, don't be confrontational, be as calm and rational as possible. "</blockquote>



i haven't in awhile but he's been picking stupid arguments and telling me he's done and my shit will.be packed blah blah blah. and his phone kept going off because of Facebook notifications since its his bday. and i shut the ringer off.and decided.to see who he had been texting. then i see that and every time they have talked I've been at work.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
14th Mar '13

You just need to ask him what's going on. Don't tell him you've gone through his phone, that would just cause a bigger argument. Just tell him you've been noticing that y'all are fighting more over little stuff, and you just want to know if everything is okay. If that doesn't work, then you MIGHT consider owning up to going through his phone and seeing the texts and phone calls.

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2327 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting saageex3:</b>" I would be super suspicious. Obviously he knows the person well enough for them to call him honey and ... [snip!] ... to go through his contacts. Whether you snooped or not, even though you invaded his privacy, something definitely is going on"</blockquote>




i hope it is some girl he's talking to. she can fucking have him. the number is.so familiar tho. but its not one saved in my phone. in checking his phone records now

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
14th Mar '13

If it were the text alone I wouldn't think much of it, SO's number is apparently really close to someone else's and he gets random texts/calls all the time. He tried for a while to tell people they had the wrong number now he just doesn't respond/answer. But with all of that going on I'd think something was up too. Personally I'd flat out ask him about it. It definitely sounds like something fishy is going on.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:" <blockquote><b>Quoting saageex3:</b>" I would be super suspicious. Obviously he knows ... [snip!] ... she can fucking have him. the number is.so familiar tho. but its not one saved in my phone. in checking his phone records now"

Call the number and see who it is. If it turns out it's not someone you know, just say something like "Oh, sorry I must have the wrong number."

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2327 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ρiηkie ρie:</b>" Call the number and see who it is. If it turns out it's not someone you know, just say something like "Oh, sorry I must have the wrong number." "</blockquote>




i will.tomorrow when i get a chance.and.hes not around

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66897 posts
status 14th Mar '13

Personally, I wouldn't be too mad. He talks to his guy friends like that.... they also send SO texts about how much they want to fuck him in the ass.



:lol: But, if it upsets you and you know he doesn't associate with people like that... I'd definitely bring it up.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
14th Mar '13

My gay bestie and I call each other babe and honey and sweetie all the time.



It wouldn't bother me in the slightest.