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LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 14th '13

I'd probably go psycho b***h and text the number from my phone or call it and try to figure out who it was lol. I don't f**k around when it comes to stuff like that..

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Mar 14th '13

The hi honey wouldn't alert me because it could be a family member or older lady friend or something along those lines, but the spending money and you don't know where its going? f**k no. And not using his truck?? Ugghhh RED FLAGS

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" The hi honey wouldn't alert me because it could be a family member or older lady friend or something ... [snip!] ... those lines, but the spending money and you don't know where its going? f**k no. And not using his truck?? Ugghhh RED FLAGS"


AND the fact that there's been several calls made to that same number while she's at work.



I'd just be straight up and be like, "Normally I don't feel the need to be nosey, but something came across me the other day and I looked at your phone.. any idea what I might have found?"

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
Mar 14th '13

OP I remember a lot of things you've posted about him even a while back and correct me if I'm wrong there were fishy things then too?



Please leave him. You deserve better.

mommakatof4 Due September 15; 4 kids; 2 angel babies; DeRidder, Louisiana 495 posts
Mar 14th '13

I would be pissed to. Cuz if he aint doing anything wrong why wouldnt he have saved the number. There is no way I would be as calm as u I would of blew my top. He would of had 5 sec to tell me who this person was and wtf they was calling him honey for and if he acted like I didnt know what I was talking about his stuff would be all over the front yard out of my house. Good luck keep ur head up

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5408 posts
Mar 14th '13

If those things were occurring on there own then I wouldn't be suspicious but you put them altogether...... "Hi honey" from an unsaved number, repeated calls to the unsaved number, he is regularly interacting with that number but hasn't saved it, money is going "missing", he has stopped allowing you in his truck, he's repeatedly starting arguments and threatening to end the relationship..... Yeah all that would make me very suspicious!

Zepplin's Mommy :) 1 child; Magnolia, Delaware 911 posts
Mar 14th '13

I would be really pissed if someone texted my DH like that! Me and DH are very open about looking threw eachothers phone we both agree that if we have nothing to hide we have no problem handing over our phones to let the other person look threw it. My DH never saved numbers in his phone and i would always ask who that? So i asked him if he could just save the numbers so then i wouldnt have to always do that now he saves every number and if he doesnt know one he lets me call or text it :) But i would seriously flat out ask him. or just be like i have a weird feeling something is going on, is there anything i need to know? and if he doesnt say anything then just say well i saw something in your phone that shouldnt be there can you explain...

aℓyssa Due October 21 (girl); 1 child; Manhattan, KS, United States 18879 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting kthx.:" Personally, I wouldn't be too mad. He talks to his guy friends like that.... they also send SO texts ... [snip!] ... the ass. :lol: But, if it upsets you and you know he doesn't associate with people like that... I'd definitely bring it up. "


Haahahaha. This was my first thought though, because there's been numerous occasions where Seth has had a texts like this from random ass numbers, and it ends up being a guy from work or a buddy. :lol:



OP, you'll be able to see WHAT the charges are for once they're posted to your account. So, you'd see if it's gas or not. If it's cash HE pulled out, I would be asking questions.



Sounds like you guys are in a toxic relationship though and both of you are wanting/looking for reasons to leave?

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting LayLu:" AND the fact that there's been several calls made to that same number while she's at work. I'd just ... [snip!] ... need to be nosey, but something came across me the other day and I looked at your phone.. any idea what I might have found?""


hahaha I like that

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" hahaha I like that"


I don't play when it comes to my man being sneaky lol we had a rough patch at the beginning of our relationship and he learned the hard way not to hide shit from me cuz I'll always know. :twisted:

Mrs. Brightside 2 kids; Lichtensteig, Switzerland 11733 posts
Mar 14th '13

did you find out who it was OP?

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting Mrs. Brightside:" did you find out who it was OP?"


I've been wondering that, too.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting LayLu:" I don't play when it comes to my man being sneaky lol we had a rough patch at the beginning of our relationship and he learned the hard way not to hide shit from me cuz I'll always know. :twisted:"


You go girl! lol hopefully I've made it clear to my SO that I won't tolerate disrespect, I'm pretty sure I have. So far so good :) *knock on wood*

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 14th '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" You go girl! lol hopefully I've made it clear to my SO that I won't tolerate disrespect, I'm pretty sure I have. So far so good :) *knock on wood*"


I hear ya, me and my SO have been through so much I don't think there's any way anything else could go wrong *knock on wood also* lol. He's learned from his mistakes so I think we're good from here on out. *knock on wood again* lol

SillyBek Due June 23 (boy); 17 kids; Utah 307 posts
Mar 15th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LayLu:</b>" I'd probably go psycho b***h and text the number from my phone or call it and try to figure out who it was lol. I don't f**k around when it comes to stuff like that.."</blockquote>



This! Lol seriously then confront him and say I want an explanation or get the f**k on!