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Julia Utterback Due July 6 (boy); Winchester, Virginia 1 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting DeanJade&Mak's Mom:" u should do something, either with friends, or a spa by yourself... my husband and his bf, are going ... [snip!] ... time lol and no 1 can interrupt me filing my nails in the potty... *its not even right, how much im looking forward to this*"


I wish I could be this way! lol. I have terrible anxiety and just the thought of it makes me anxious.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
20th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Julia Utterback:</b>" I wish I could be this way! lol. I have terrible anxiety and just the thought of it makes me anxious."</blockquote>




thought of what?? sending ur children away, husband, or both lol, my oldest is 7, then 3 year old, and then a 18 month old, i have a 30 year old husband who is about 17 mentally :roll: i want t string them together by their toes most days that's when momma needs some, *shhhh* time lol



i have bad anxiety, panic disorder, ocd, and paranoia, pretty much a hot mess in heels, but i can get over them being gone for a night or 2... or 10 lol

oohlala Heidi 1 child; Canandaigua, New York 219 posts
20th Mar '13

Don't take it the wrong way. It's not like he's so exciting to be leaving you. I'm sure you would enjoy some time away too but that doesn't mean you wouldn't miss eachother. It's hard being the mommy & the wifey but you could have something special for him to come back to, a surprise maybe? Some lingerie. It will make the both of you feel good and bring you closer after spending time apart.

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting ღ Heidi ღ:" Don't take it the wrong way. It's not like he's so exciting to be leaving you. I'm sure you would enjoy ... [snip!] ... to, a surprise maybe? Some lingerie. It will make the both of you feel good and bring you closer after spending time apart."


Yeah, he called me while he was gone telling me how much he misses me. I just wish we could go out of town together and both be excited about it lol. But I know it was work, I couldn't keep him from going. It wasn't too bad.. I actually slept through the whole night for the first time in months, so I enjoyed that lol.

oohlala Heidi 1 child; Canandaigua, New York 219 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting LayLu:" Yeah, he called me while he was gone telling me how much he misses me. I just wish we could go out of ... [snip!] ... from going. It wasn't too bad.. I actually slept through the whole night for the first time in months, so I enjoyed that lol."

Well maybe you should set something up when he has time off and you're recovered, take a little vacation together. Stay in a hotel. You'd probably have a lot of fun :)