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☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70797 posts
14th Mar '13

This is why I don't snoop. Don't go searching for shit you don't wanna find.



Now you're going to be sitting there obsessing over the text trying to decode it. You know better than to ask him because he'll flip it on you for going through his phone.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Terry spelt like that is typically male, in ... [snip!] ... without his permission. "</blockquote> We both go through each others phones. It's not an uncommon thing for us."



Well then clearly you two do not trust each other. Which is a shame because if you dont have trust what is the point of a relationship.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:</b>" Ask him. If you don't currently have trust issues, then ask him before you allow your mind to go to all ... [snip!] ... Ask yours if he would mind being like that. If he panics and won't let you see his phone, then maybe you should be concerned."</blockquote>




We already have each others passwords and give each other permission to look through our phones.



I mean IM going to ask him when he gets up, I was just asking you all what y'all thought.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Well then clearly you two do not trust each other. Which is a shame because if you dont have trust what is the point of a relationship. "</blockquote>




Well we've been doing fine for going on five years, so thanks for your opinion. :)

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22785 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kelsey054:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" Mmmm I dunno unless you actually think ... [snip!] ... in a weird work incident or something?"</blockquote> To me "special night" seems just a little weird in the sentence."</blockquote>




Well I agree, but sometimes guys word things weirdly because they are dumb

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Well then clearly you two do not trust ... [snip!] ... of a relationship. "</blockquote> Well we've been doing fine for going on five years, so thanks for your opinion. :)"


OBVIOUSLY not, from the OP.



Come on.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" This is why I don't snoop. Don't go searching for shit you don't wanna find. Now you're going to be ... [snip!] ... over the text trying to decode it. You know better than to ask him because he'll flip it on you for going through his phone."


B-I-N-G-O!

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kelsey054:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:</b>" Ask him. If you don't currently have trust ... [snip!] ... to look through our phones. I mean IM going to ask him when he gets up, I was just asking you all what y'all thought."</blockquote>




If you're going to ask him, why does it matter what We THINK it means...?

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5990 posts
14th Mar '13

I tend to think the best of someone unless given a reason not to. I would just ask him about the special night. His reaction may tell you a lot

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Well then clearly you two do not trust ... [snip!] ... of a relationship. "</blockquote> Well we've been doing fine for going on five years, so thanks for your opinion. :)"


But why do you feel the need to snoop though? I'm not trying to be a b***h or anything... but SO and I have each other's passwords and I never snoop through his shit. Know why? It would be a complete waste of my time because I KNOW I wouldn't find anything. If you honestly feel content in your relationship you wouldn't feel the need to snoop through his phone while he's sleeping no less.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" OBVIOUSLY not, from the OP. Come on. "</blockquote>




So your telling me that you've never in your life EVER went through a boyfriends/husbands phone or computer?



(and for the records I wasn't trying to sound snippy in the previous comment.)

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 37wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting kelsey054:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:</b>" ... [snip!] ... you all what y'all thought."</blockquote> If you're going to ask him, why does it matter what We THINK it means...?"</blockquote>




Because it's just a simple question, just like when the other women post about this shit.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" OBVIOUSLY not, from the OP. Come on. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... a boyfriends/husbands phone or computer? (and for the records I wasn't trying to sound snippy in the previous comment.)"



NOPE. We have been together since 05, married in 07. I have no reason to, I have all the access too, as does he but we dont. If I were to ask him he would let me, as I would him. But I dont see the point because I trust him with everything in me. There is an underlying issue if someone feels the need to go through their SO's phone.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
14th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" NOPE. We have been together since 05, married in 07. I have no reason to, I have all the access too, ... [snip!] ... I trust him with everything in me. There is an underlying issue if someone feels the need to go through their SO's phone.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
14th Mar '13
Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" OBVIOUSLY not, from the OP. Come on. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... a boyfriends/husbands phone or computer? (and for the records I wasn't trying to sound snippy in the previous comment.)"


no, cause if I wanted something boring to do Id call my mother :P




hun....it could mean a hundred things, maybe Terry is the HR guy and your hubby was getting high in thePM area....who knows.



if you have no reason not to trust him,I suggest forgetting this,and maybe start giving each other some privacy and stay our of each others phones.