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user banned California 36390 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" I don't think it's abuse but I won't do it to my kid. Our neighbor's step kids were lying to her (11 ... [snip!] ... punished them n not her own kid in those ways. That never sat well with me. I chalked it up to a younger evil step mom thing."</blockquote>



Ugh I got sick to my stomach reading this

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting Dean Winchester:" lmao. its hard not to laugh.. the real trick isnt getting them not to say it.. is not to laugh in front ... [snip!] ... through the whole "truck- f**k" thing and she would do it purposely because dh would laugh his ass off... :| that got annoying"


That's exactly what it is. If they see a reaction they'll keep doing it. My kid is sassy though. Right now it's cute, but in about 7 years I doubt I'll think it's very cute.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dean Winchester:</b>" daddy encourages this kiddo :| drives me up the wall.. and he lets her watch south park, american dad ... [snip!] ... her my nook. i swear. my poor kid. but i was like that kinda as a kid.. i watched southpark. and i think i turned out ok :D"</blockquote>




That's one thing. I have a bad mouth. Def. trying to work on that. But the kids are sheltered from TV. No South Park, no Cartoon Network. No nick jr. Not family guy etc on channel 13. Sometimes DH turns on transformers or other comic book super hero shows.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting Dean Winchester:" lol right now she likes to say that she likes pink tacos.. :| not because of what we think... but the ... [snip!] ... has she can color and it has stamps and you can change the color for the stamps and they had a taco stamp.. and pink colored..."


Wii failed.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dean Winchester:</b>" daddy encourages this kiddo :| drives ... [snip!] ... Network. No nick jr. Not family guy etc on channel 13. Sometimes DH turns on transformers or other comic book super hero shows."


I wasn't even allowed to watch Ren and Stimpy when I was a kid. :lol:

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dean Winchester:</b>" lol right now she likes to say that she likes pink tacos.. :| not because of what we think... but the ... [snip!] ... has she can color and it has stamps and you can change the color for the stamps and they had a taco stamp.. and pink colored..."</blockquote>




I'd die.

[yo.] 1 child; Gayville, South Dakota 13371 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:</b>" My daughter dropped the F bomb before. I got into an argument with my ex's dad and I went and loaded ... [snip!] ... PAPA." I couldn't even be mad. I told her not to say that, but just that she used it appropriately secretly made me giggle."</blockquote>




Rylan says "the f**k man?" And he to,d his speech therapist the first time he met her "I'm gonna beat your ass" lol I bet I turned ghost white. But he does use it properly at least :oops:

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
15th Mar '13

1) No
2) no
3) no

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:</b>" I wasn't even allowed to watch Ren and Stimpy when I was a kid. :lol:"</blockquote>



We watched Simpsons and South Park... So bad. Then again, I was also encouraged to smoke pot from age 13 on and called a prude because I wouldn't :/

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16777 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" I wasn't even allowed to watch Ren and Stimpy when I was a kid. :lol:"


LMAO
i did
and south park...
and when i was 11 i was watching jay and silent bob movies.
my dad didnt pay attention BUTTTT he raised me well. lol
i think im the only kid our of all my siblings and step siblings who actually had a good head on their shoulders.. and a decent child. lol

Serial Mom ✄ 18 kids; Michigan 2690 posts
15th Mar '13

It's on the same level as spanking to me. The child is afraid that the parent will do something to them, so they behave. I don't think using fear in disciplining is productive. How will the kid ever respect the parent on that situation?



Is it abuse? I'm not sure.. there's such a fine line.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18556 posts
15th Mar '13

I remember being 8 years old and my mom wrestling me on my bed trying to get the bar of soap in my mouth.... She just wasn't strong enough and she gave up on it that day. I've been cussing like a sailor ever since, lol... I wouldn't do it to my kids but my kids have never cussed, they know it that it's not acceptable for them. Although, I could probably set a better example that I do...

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting [yo.]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:</b>" My daughter dropped the F bomb before. ... [snip!] ... the first time he met her "I'm gonna beat your ass" lol I bet I turned ghost white. But he does use it properly at least :oops:"


It's so bad I'm laughing.

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15312 posts
15th Mar '13

I hate when people are like "I consider it abuse"....okay, well I consider Santa real.....

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70800 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting Dean Winchester:" LMAO i did and south park... and when i was 11 i was watching jay and silent bob movies. my dad didnt ... [snip!] ... the only kid our of all my siblings and step siblings who actually had a good head on their shoulders.. and a decent child. lol"


My mom was the "loose" one with parenting of my aunts and uncles. My sister and I are the only ones to go to college besides one of my other cousins. But she's a f**king weirdo. I don't think she's blood related.




..Even though she's my dad's sister's kid. :lol: