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Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 64513 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" She never wanted to be involved until right at the end of my pregnancy. Me an ungrateful b***h? Please... ... [snip!] ... they found out I was pregnant. Sell to another family member that could use them not like it would be to a complete stranger "


That is not going to matter. Selling them is selling them. Makes you look greedy like you only want money and don't care about your sister. How much can a 13 year old really be there for you any way? They aren't exactly the ideal support system.

**Alexius's Mommy** 1 child; Elmira, New York 256 posts
15th Mar '13

It matters because she is from my dads side of the family. Her and my other 2 brothers and my dad never showed any form of wanting to be in mine or my daughter's life

Mandy and her girls!~ 3 kids; Illinois 10358 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" She never wanted to be involved until right at the end of my pregnancy. Me an ungrateful b***h? Please... ... [snip!] ... they found out I was pregnant. Sell to another family member that could use them not like it would be to a complete stranger "

She's a child still what do you expect from her? And if you're trying to be so generous to a family that needs it why don't you just give it to them?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
15th Mar '13

Yeah I agree with everyone else. My nephew who is 4 still fits in 2t shirts and some pants, he's a peanut but my DS has been in 24m-2t since he was 13 months old, he's super tall. You don't know they won't fit and she was excited. I'd be pisses too.

**Alexius's Mommy** 1 child; Elmira, New York 256 posts
15th Mar '13

I have no support from that side of the family what so ever

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" It matters because she is from my dads side of the family. Her and my other 2 brothers and my dad never showed any form of wanting to be in mine or my daughter's life "


OMG let it go, or just tell them that. You obviously have an issue with them and what happened...if you're not willing to give them a second chance, be the bigger person and just move on with your life without them...don't just use it as an excuse to do things like these.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" She's a child still what do you expect from her? And if you're trying to be so generous to a family that needs it why don't you just give it to them?"

:!:

allison erin Due May 18; 1 child; Olympia, Washington 12772 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" It matters because she is from my dads side of the family. Her and my other 2 brothers and my dad never showed any form of wanting to be in mine or my daughter's life "


She is 13. It says a great deal for her character that the rest of your "dad's family" does not get involved, but she is choosing to make a kind gesture.



This is her "showing a form of wanting to be in yours and your daughter's life"...

allison erin Due May 18; 1 child; Olympia, Washington 12772 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" I have no support from that side of the family what so ever"



She was trying to give you some...

Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 64513 posts
15th Mar '13

Sounds like you are taking all your problems with that part of your family on the one person from that side that reached out. Be careful or you are going to be the one to close the door on that.

**Alexius's Mommy** 1 child; Elmira, New York 256 posts
15th Mar '13

I haven't sold anything, I still have all the stuff, I even told her that. My dad still wants to be a complete a*****e about it and even talk shit on my boyfriend when he didn't even do anything

peekin3 Racine, Wisconsin 289 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting allison erin:</b>" It was still a generous offer. THEY gifted you items for your baby. If it were my great aunt Sally ... [snip!] ... use when you know it can't be used...then don't mention it. It shoots a hole through the kindness that they were extending..."</blockquote>




Bet the sister never tries again...

allison erin Due May 18; 1 child; Olympia, Washington 12772 posts
15th Mar '13
Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:" I haven't sold anything, I still have all the stuff, I even told her that. My dad still wants to be a complete a*****e about it and even talk shit on my boyfriend when he didn't even do anything "


Your sister is not your dad...

peekin3 Racine, Wisconsin 289 posts
15th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Alexius's Mommy**:</b>" I have no support from that side of the family what so ever"</blockquote>




And after this there's no wonder why

**Alexius's Mommy** 1 child; Elmira, New York 256 posts
15th Mar '13

Nope she's not but she has been just as bad as my dad