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IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" yes let him know but im pretty sure he cant do anything if its in the same city"


He is moving too soon and he doesn't even know where to yet & he has to be out by the 22nd lol. I just told him though.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" Yeah, just give him a heads up that you are moving, and the address. If he already knew you were looking ... [snip!] ... will be moving soon just keeps the lines of communication open and he can't claim later that you moved and didn't tell him. "

True :) He doesn't really like going through the courts for much anyways, he likes to keep things low-key luckily.



Your ex sounds like an ass though :( sorry you gotta deal with that.

Sofia's Mummy♥ 1 child; United Kingdom 7331 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Ahh ok, I thought so but I just wanted to make sure. I don't want to get in deep shit for moving lol."</blockquote>




I don't blame you! It sounds like you and BD are pretty agreeable, I'd let him know you're planning on moving now so it's not like you're springing it on him.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting IDGAF ❤:" True :) He doesn't really like going through the courts for much anyways, he likes to keep things low-key luckily. Your ex sounds like an ass though :( sorry you gotta deal with that."


I've gotten used to him. I know what he's like, so I just head off problems before he can create them. I told him over a month ago we'd be looking for a bigger house, and when we found one, I told him and that we'd probably be moving in and would be in before 1 May...giving him nearly 60 days notice(even though we'll actually be in before 1 April...everything happened quickly).

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
16th Mar '13

Is he actually even giving a damn now?

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Is he actually even giving a damn now?"


A bit more :P haha. He sees her more so now.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Ahh ok, I thought so but I just wanted ... [snip!] ... you and BD are pretty agreeable, I'd let him know you're planning on moving now so it's not like you're springing it on him."


Yea, we get along really well surprisingly we are friends and can hang out together with DD without being at each other's throats haha. We actually have a great time together with DD, we never argue or anything. He talks to me about pretty much everything. I got lucky in that aspect. & yea I texted him although he is probably asleep because he work's night shift but he will see it when he wakes up.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" I've gotten used to him. I know what he's like, so I just head off problems before he can create them. ... [snip!] ... 1 May...giving him nearly 60 days notice(even though we'll actually be in before 1 April...everything happened quickly). "


That has to be annoying though, does he really still have a grudge against you like that where he has to make shit more difficult?

Sofia's Mummy♥ 1 child; United Kingdom 7331 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Yea, we get along really well surprisingly we are friends and can hang out together with DD without ... [snip!] ... & yea I texted him although he is probably asleep because he work's night shift but he will see it when he wakes up."</blockquote>




That's awesome!

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting IDGAF ❤:" A bit more :P haha. He sees her more so now."


That's good I'm glad to hear that.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Yea, we get along really well surprisingly ... [snip!] ... is probably asleep because he work's night shift but he will see it when he wakes up."</blockquote> That's awesome!"


It really is. :)

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" That's good I'm glad to hear that."



Thanks :) I just hope it sticks.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting IDGAF ❤:" Thanks :) I just hope it sticks."



me too!

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting IDGAF ❤:" That has to be annoying though, does he really still have a grudge against you like that where he has to make shit more difficult?"


Yeah, he really does. I accepted that I wasn't perfect in the marriage, but I know where my faults lie, and I've tried to correct them since. He refuses to even think that he did anything wrong, doesn't see how his behavior was abusive mentally, emotionally, financially...



Plus, I think it kind of stuck in his craw that I got back together with my first husband(and that I got pregnant again). I had said I wasn't having any more after age 29(well, this little Monkey snuck up on me at age 30).

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
16th Mar '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" Yeah, he really does. I accepted that I wasn't perfect in the marriage, but I know where my faults lie, ... [snip!] ... I got pregnant again). I had said I wasn't having any more after age 29(well, this little Monkey snuck up on me at age 30). "


Aww..sounds like he is miserable & trying to drag you down with him, glad it isn't bothering you the way he wants it to.