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Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Yeah, that makes no sense, unless he's depressed. The only time I've ever dealt with that, dude was ... [snip!] ... that, dude was cheating. But I'm sure if you thought that was a possibility you would have mentioned it. So i have no idea:("</blockquote>



I brought all this up to my best friend and she mentioned cheating as a possibility, but I just don't know when and where he would be doing it. His shop is basically at our house so even when he works he's here and he doesn't just strike off for long periods of time or anything like that. He never acts like he has anything to hide either so I don't know :(

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
16th Mar '13

You cam PM me I have the same issue

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... do feel that way sometimes."</blockquote> Is your marriage good besides the sex issue? Do you still feel love from him?"</blockquote>



Yeah. This is the only issue we have, everything else is great. And yes, I still love him.

Dr. Angelface 2 kids; California 8236 posts
16th Mar '13

what does he say is the reason he is saying NO when he says it?

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pusherman:</b>" The only other thing I can think of then would just be plain old boredom. Unless he's hiding some erectile ... [snip!] ... it seems to be bothering you so much and you don't need to have that bottled up. Oh, and I'll come make love to you :wink:"</blockquote>



:lol:



I think I will just sit down with him and try to get him to talk to me about what is going on. It just so frustrating!

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Angelface:</b>" what does he say is the reason he is saying NO when he says it?"</blockquote>




He won't give me a reason.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... from him?"</blockquote> Yeah. This is the only issue we have, everything else is great. And yes, I still love him."</blockquote>



I meant does he make YOU feel loved.
If yes, i wouldn't even see cheating as an option. I'd have a nice loooooooong sit down with him. Ask if there's anything he'd want to try to spice things up or if he'd like a really nice date night to relieve some stress.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
16th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Ask if there's anything he'd want to try to spice things up or if he'd like a really nice date night to relieve some stress."</blockquote>




He does make me feel loved (all the sexual issues aside). And we even went out on a date tonight. His mom watched DD while we went out to dinner. I thought for sure I get some tonight finally, but noooo!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... on a date tonight. His mom watched DD while we went out to dinner. I thought for sure I get some tonight finally, but noooo!"</blockquote>



What if DD stayed the night at your moms sometime?

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... thought for sure I get some tonight finally, but noooo!"</blockquote> What if DD stayed the night at your moms sometime?"</blockquote>




She's 2 and I still haven't let her stay the night anywhere. :oops: I guess I'll have to work up to that because I'm still not ready to be away from her all night. :lol:

JKR 2 kids; ---------------------, TX, United States 1126 posts
status 17th Mar '13

Do you think maybe he has an underlying health issue? Maybe like low testosterone. I would sit down and really talk to him about it. Tell him how it upsets you and maybe see if he could go get checked out.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JKR:</b>" Do you think maybe he has an underlying health issue? Maybe like low testosterone. I would sit down and ... [snip!] ... I would sit down and really talk to him about it. Tell him how it upsets you and maybe see if he could go get checked out."</blockquote>




If he has any health issues then were both unaware of it. Maybe it's something he can look into though if he really doesn't have another reason for not having sex.

JKR 2 kids; ---------------------, TX, United States 1126 posts
status 17th Mar '13
Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JKR:</b>" Do you think maybe he has an underlying health issue? ... [snip!] ... both unaware of it. Maybe it's something he can look into though if he really doesn't have another reason for not having sex."


I would, because if you feel this way then it is something that needs to be resolved not only for his health but for the health of your marriage.