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Sooooo pissed off 22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

So today or now yesterday was SOs bachelor party, at noon they went to play paint ball. Then went out to eat, then to a casino, and then to a night club. I have not received on phone call or text from him this whole time. I seen him around 6 before the limo picked him up and he said his phone was going dead, but I know all his friends have phones..so it is now 5:30 am he is still not home. The club they went to closed at 4 And it is literally 15 minutes from our house. I have never been this pissed off at him ever. He has never given me a reason to doubt him but tonight ugh

Bambi78 1 child; United Kingdom 1715 posts
17th Mar '13

His friends have probably got him real drunk and are now freaking out trying to sober him up to deliver him home to you in a decent state so you wont kill them.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bambi78:</b>" His friends have probably got him real drunk and are now freaking out trying to sober him up to deliver him home to you in a decent state so you wont kill them."</blockquote>




I sure hope that's the case. Either way he is dead. I'm stressing myself out so bad right now. My head is pounding, my stomach is in knots and my mind is racing a million miles per second. I hate feeling this way. I won't be able to sleep until he is home

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
17th Mar '13

I'm sorry mama. I would seriously just lock him out of your room & go to sleep. You shouldn't have to stress or be worried about him. My SO does the same stupid shit & trust me...it gets old. Don't let him get away with it once or he will keep on doing it.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ mommy & colton:</b>" I'm sorry mama. I would seriously just lock him out of your room & go to sleep. You shouldn't have to ... [snip!] ... him. My SO does the same stupid shit & trust me...it gets old. Don't let him get away with it once or he will keep on doing it."</blockquote>




He has never done this. And I know that it's his bachelor party but where is the respect? He knows how I can get. I know he would be pissed if I did this for my bachelorette party. I think it was just a bad idea. I have never had trust issues with him...now I am unsure :(

JustDucky 2 kids; Connecticut 1118 posts
17th Mar '13

Maybe their drunk asses all went out for breakfast? I wouldn't be too upset, it doesn't sound like this is something that happens all the time. It's his bachelor party.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JustDucky:</b>" Maybe their drunk asses all went out for breakfast? I wouldn't be too upset, it doesn't sound like this is something that happens all the time. It's his bachelor party."</blockquote>




Well all the guys met up here and left their trucks. Everyone else came around 3 and went home. Now my SO and 2 of his friends that I do not trust at all are the only ones out. It has me worried

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

And of course now I am hearing ambulances and sirens going off a few blocks away :/ I wish I could fall asleep

Bambi78 1 child; United Kingdom 1715 posts
17th Mar '13

I hope hes home soon. Men do some stupid shit but Im sure that if hes never done this before that he wont do it again.
Make his hangover hell and get him to make it up to you BIG.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

A whole hour went by since I posted this and he still is not home. Wtf

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6970 posts
17th Mar '13

You should not have expected anything less. It's a bachelor's party. Guys get crazy, it's their last time to do this without being married. Don't be too pissed about it when he gets home. Guys only get one party. Us women get bridal showers and bachelorette party and the wedding is all about us.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22072 posts
17th Mar '13

I guess i would be a little worried that he's not home yet, but i would assume he's sleeping it off somewhere. I would not have expected him to call all throughout the day/night though. It's his bachelor party, the guys probably wouldn't even let him call.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

All the other guys were calling their girl friends and fiances all day. The girls were with me th majority of the day, he's been gone since 12. Came back at 6 to wait for the limo and that was 12 hours ago. I'm to the point where I think I need to call around. This just isn't right. Bachelor party or not he needs to respect me. My bachelorette party is in 2 weeks and I would not even think of doing this to him.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22072 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Whiteman:</b>" All the other guys were calling their girl friends and fiances all day. The girls were with me th majority ... [snip!] ... party or not he needs to respect me. My bachelorette party is in 2 weeks and I would not even think of doing this to him."</blockquote>




He probably doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. I don't think he is either. I would have gone to sleep and if he wasn't home in the morning when i got up, then i would start to worry. If you're real concerned, call the guys you said he's still with. They're probably sleeping though.

22Jleigh33 1 child; Louisiana 747 posts
17th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Colt's mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Whiteman:</b>" All the other guys were calling their girl ... [snip!] ... i would start to worry. If you're real concerned, call the guys you said he's still with. They're probably sleeping though."</blockquote>




It's almost 7 am. My LO will be up in 30 minutes, I called almost everyone he was with and they don't know where he is. The only 2 guys he's with all have their phones off. And they 2 guys he's currently with couldn't have crashed any where. One of them has their truck parked in my yard and the other lives 2 houses down. They were supposed to take a cab home. So unless they are knocked out in the back of a cab or in the street then idk what to think.