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Wandering Eyes ♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13

Do you have a relationship where you're both comfortable with each other looking, "checking out" other people. Men or women.



If you are comfortable, do you think that makes your relationship stronger.



If you're not, do you think you're insecure in your relationship?

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
17th Mar '13

My SO and I check out girls together. :p

♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" I don't care if my husband looks at other women. I don't think it makes our relationship stronger, different ... [snip!] ... different strokes for different folks and all that. He has also gone to a strip club and got a lap dance... Whatever. lol"


Lol. That's a good positive attitude to have.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
17th Mar '13

I think it's natural to notice attractive people, we talk about it. It's unreasonable to think or believe that SO is no longer going to find other people attractive. It definitely doesn't mean they can't be/aren't faithful.

wyatt.earp. 2 kids; Tacoma, Washington 2166 posts
17th Mar '13

i honestly do not like that.



like a pp said, different strokes for different folks.

♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Amanda.M:" My SO and I check out girls together. :p"


:lol:
I'm a girl looker myself. I find myself looking at girls more than guys and if I'm feeling feisty I'll say something about her to SO if he's with me.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
17th Mar '13

We lived the life style of 100% open relationships, so we checked out and dated other people all the time. lol

Christan_89 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8043 posts
17th Mar '13

I'm always side-tracked by b**bs. Then I point them out to my husband if they are really big or fake looking or something. I think it makes him feel weird when I do it, though... haha.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
17th Mar '13

We always check out other people. I'm an attractive girl, I have no worries . Lol

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:" I'm always side-tracked by b**bs. Then I point them out to my husband if they are really big or fake looking or something. I think it makes him feel weird when I do it, though... haha. "


:!:

♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" I think it's natural to notice attractive people, we talk about it. It's unreasonable to think or believe ... [snip!] ... believe that SO is no longer going to find other people attractive. It definitely doesn't mean they can't be/aren't faithful."


I agree.
It just shouldn't be something they do constantly. Every once in a while seems okay. If I was having a good conversation with my SO and he stopped purposely to look at a girl, I don't think I would like that.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
17th Mar '13

f**k no! I might be insecure but if I see him even look in the direction of a girl that I consider hot and isn't with a man I give him a look and he knows it's bothering me. Idk about him though, I don't check out other guys ever except Channing tatum *drool*

♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting wyatt.earp.:" i honestly do not like that. like a pp said, different strokes for different folks."


Do you feel confident in your relationship? Is there reasons you don't like it?

♥MyM&Ms 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 35496 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:" I'm always side-tracked by b**bs. Then I point them out to my husband if they are really big or fake looking or something. I think it makes him feel weird when I do it, though... haha. "


Haha. Like you're giving him permission to do something he feels he shouldn't do?
That's funny.

Christan_89 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8043 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" I do that, too! LOL "Do you think those are fake? They're too fantastic to be real...""


I do "Awh, man... my b**bs used to be cute and perky like her's!" Haha



I don't think DH knows how to take it.. it's like he's wondering "Uhhh... is this okay???" Lol