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Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" So he could very well get out of paying CS if he didn't want to pay it?"


Yup. My ex did just this for 7 years. It wasn't until he took me to court for custody (I had full custody) that child support was addressed. Since he still lives out of state, if he hadn't decided to try to piss me off with custody (which he admitted was the reason) he still wouldn't be paying anything.

JadensMommy Due September 30; 1 child; Crystal River, Florida 55 posts
18th Mar '13

I have a question...Do you get money from school(grants,loans etc)? If you do, keep that money to yourself. Stop doing his laundry. Do only yours and your sons.



My fiance knows better than to pull any of that shit. We share our money, and if I need something and don't have it, he give me the money for it.

Layla's Momma ♥ 17 kids; California 4457 posts
18th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JadensMommy:</b>" I have a question...Do you get money from school(grants,loans etc)? If you do, keep that money to yourself. ... [snip!] ... than to pull any of that shit. We share our money, and if I need something and don't have it, he give me the money for it."</blockquote>



Exactly!



Stop cooking for him, stop doing his laundry etc. see how that makes him feel!

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
18th Mar '13
Quoting JadensMommy:" I have a question...Do you get money from school(grants,loans etc)? If you do, keep that money to yourself. ... [snip!] ... than to pull any of that shit. We share our money, and if I need something and don't have it, he give me the money for it."


Right now I only get what's left over from the grants which has only been $230 the last 2 semesters. I have started saving. I even save the extra from what he gives me. I was only able to start a few weeks ago, though. I just can't imagine not cooking or doing his laundry. Not that I LIKE doing it, but I just can't do something to blatantly hurt him or whatever. It's just not in me.