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I want to be happy.. Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Mar '13

I hate my SO so much....seriously. can't stand him...hate everything he does. Hate the way he treats me....I am looking for apartments online but everything is either on the east side (bad part of town) or no pets. I know there is an apartment complex that always has openings....it is sort of like the "projects" just not as bad....i can't seem to bring myself to look into that place...but i know they would allow a pet, it is close to my work....what would you guys do?



i want to love my new apartment so it doesn't depress me...but i want to be happy and i want my daughter to see me happy....and I want to find real love...i want to be away from this douche.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
17th Mar '13

I'd look into the place that's not as bad as the projects. If its safe there, and you're desperate to get away from your SO quickly.

Naturally Alternative 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Lafayette, Louisiana 6687 posts
status 17th Mar '13

If you're unhappy with him, leave. No use wasting time on someone you're not happy with.



Could try counseling but if you think it's past that, then leave. What's there to question?

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Mar '13

no i do want to leave..it's just the place itself.......I just think of a lot of ghetto people living there.

Tasha & Nika Due December 22 (boy); 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 16049 posts
17th Mar '13

If you end up getting a crappy apartment, have your mind set on the fact that it's temporary.. save up, and move on to a better option first chance you get



Sometimes we have to start off somewhere.. and it's not always pretty, you'll be okay



Good luck!

Naturally Alternative 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Lafayette, Louisiana 6687 posts
status 17th Mar '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" no i do want to leave..it's just the place itself.......I just think of a lot of ghetto people living there."


I live in the ghetto too... sometimes you do what you have to do. So long as it's safe who cares if it's pretty? May have to keep to yourself but it's a starting place.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting Tasha & Nika:" If you end up getting a crappy apartment, have your mind set on the fact that it's temporary.. save up, ... [snip!] ... option first chance you get Sometimes we have to start off somewhere.. and it's not always pretty, you'll be okay Good luck!"


ugghh you're right....I will go there tomorrow...I have been debating all weekend.

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
17th Mar '13

What's more important your happiness or your pet? I know pets are great and what's not but in the long run if I was truly unhappy with SO and didn't want to live in the bad part of my town/city I would take the place that doesn't allow animals

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Mar '13
Quoting {36WEEKS!!}:" What's more important your happiness or your pet? I know pets are great and what's not but in the long ... [snip!] ... truly unhappy with SO and didn't want to live in the bad part of my town/city I would take the place that doesn't allow animals"


I just can't leave him behind..I can't. He cuddles with me at night and makes me feel less lonely...my SO doesn't deserve to keep him and get something to cuddle with.