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Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
Mar 18th '13

You seem awfully judgemental. Seriously. The baby is less than 2 weeks old, they are not going to notice as long as they are being taken care of and their needs are being met.

EasyComeEasyGo 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Maryland 8035 posts
Mar 18th '13

I could barely walk 1 week PP.

I would never do it, and I would probably look at someone crazy if they did it, but...I couldn't really care less what they decide to do.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
Mar 18th '13

I wouldn't do it, but if she had somebody to take care of her baby while she was drunk, I'm not going to judge.
But I would be thinking how dumb it is to complain about on FB. She's clearly trying to look 'cool' somehow. I can't stand crap like that, bragging about stuff you shouldn't want to showcase. Immature.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Leilani Allyssa's Mommy:" She has left her baby with her mom for the day at least 3 times that I know and constantly publicly complains ... [snip!] ... her parenting duties. I just don't get why people have kids if they only want to be a parent when it is convenient for them."


you get the gold star, you are a better mother.



Is that what you needed OP?!

user banned Due December 20; Georgia 1823 posts
Mar 18th '13

Not my business and not my problem.

J+B=Z&L ♡ 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5968 posts
Mar 18th '13

I wouldn't do it but to each their own. And its not like she just left the baby at home alone I'm sure.

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 18th '13

I understand the whole, "I'm not pregnant anymore, I can drink!" aspect of it, but.. wait until LO's asleep and drink a couple glasses of wine. Don't go out and get hammered after only week. :?

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
Mar 18th '13

There is nothing wrong with going out if your baby is being cared for. And I agree with her a hang over doesn't agree with taking care of a little one lol.

user banned Due December 20; Georgia 1823 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Leilani Allyssa's Mommy:" She has left her baby with her mom for the day at least 3 times that I know and constantly publicly complains ... [snip!] ... her parenting duties. I just don't get why people have kids if they only want to be a parent when it is convenient for them."

So I would be right by assuming that you've never complained about being a parent because you're so much better than that?
Bullshit.
Being a parent is hard and I see no problem in complaining once in a while or going out and having a good time to try and release some stress.

The Dandelion Rapist 18 kids; New Mexico 6885 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting LayLu:" I understand the whole, "I'm not pregnant anymore, I can drink!" aspect of it, but.. wait until LO's asleep and drink a couple glasses of wine. Don't go out and get hammered after only week. :?"



So, what is a justifiable time frame to go out and party after having a baby?

*WishingUponAStar* 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Lawton, Oklahoma 18442 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Leilani Allyssa's Mommy:" She has left her baby with her mom for the day at least 3 times that I know and constantly publicly complains ... [snip!] ... her parenting duties. I just don't get why people have kids if they only want to be a parent when it is convenient for them."


Why does it matter to you so much though? It is her life! Some people just complain a lot. I know I complain a lot about my kids right now. They drive me crazy and I don't have anyone to come save me. If I could, I would definitely be giving my kids to people to get a few breaks! (DH is deployed) It doesn't mean I only want to be a parent when it is convenient for me.
I personally think you should stay out of her business so much and worry about JUST your life, Maybe get a hobby or something?

The Icebox {MBRD} 17 kids; New Mexico 18574 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Leilani Allyssa's Mommy:" She has left her baby with her mom for the day at least 3 times that I know and constantly publicly complains ... [snip!] ... her parenting duties. I just don't get why people have kids if they only want to be a parent when it is convenient for them."


Not your kid, not your problem. Stfu

The Dandelion Rapist 18 kids; New Mexico 6885 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:" So I would be right by assuming that you've never complained about being a parent because you're so much ... [snip!] ... is hard and I see no problem in complaining once in a while or going out and having a good time to try and release some stress."


This reminds me of my, "I wish my kids would just SHUT UP thread" I posted on here a long time ago. :lol:

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
Mar 18th '13

Well I don't get hangovers but if someone was willing to watch my baby and I wasn't breastfeeding then yeah I probably would go out.



If I did get a hangover I wouldn't complain about it though, because it was my decision to go drink knowing full well I would have a baby to take care of so I'd suck it up.



However I don't go out much period so idk if my answer is valid lol.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
Mar 18th '13
Quoting Leilani Allyssa's Mommy:" She has left her baby with her mom for the day at least 3 times that I know and constantly publicly complains ... [snip!] ... her parenting duties. I just don't get why people have kids if they only want to be a parent when it is convenient for them."


When she is dropping the kid off with you 3 times, then you can b***h about it.