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Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Rd.:" Lol, he wants to file papers on the day of and expect them to update his file and shit asap? Not happening. ... [snip!] ... he'll be thrown in a "to get to pile"... So sure he can serve you, but those papers are irrelevant if they're not in his file."

That's what I thought. I'd like to know what the heck they told him, that he thinks he can file and serve me on the day we have court :?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" My ex apparently filled out the divorce part of the papers while trying to file for custody. He also ... [snip!] ... days and yet on his voice message said unless he gets joint or partial/shared custody, that he'll take me back until he does."


LOL sounds like a winner! my ex is only fighting this because i didnt do the adoption fast enough, he told me..via fb message (because hes so smart) that my SO "could have him" and that hes fully willing to give jacob up for adoption to him but we couldnt do it fast enough for his liking, so in an email he said "i hate you, its on now b***h" ill be printing it all out for the courts lol he doesnt want my son, he just wants to control and piss me off.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" LOL my ex is fighting for a once a year visit LOL im not sure where you are but in canada the law is ... [snip!] ... said good luck proving you have a beneficial and meaningful relationship with a kid you dont know LOL it should be interesting"

Mine has been haranguing me about weekend visits since my 35 week preemie was born. Riddle me that one lol.



He's 6 months, 5 months adjusted, and is now refusing the bottle no matter what's in it or who gives it to him. So I'm curious how he'll feel about not getting his weekend access for a while.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" LOL sounds like a winner! my ex is only fighting this because i didnt do the adoption fast enough, he ... [snip!] ... on now b***h" ill be printing it all out for the courts lol he doesnt want my son, he just wants to control and piss me off."

We've both found winners it seems lol.



Mine seems to think mentally, emotionally and verbally abusing me (among bullying, manipulation, threats and lying) is going to get him what he wants.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Mine has been haranguing me about weekend visits since my 35 week preemie was born. Riddle me that one ... [snip!] ... no matter what's in it or who gives it to him. So I'm curious how he'll feel about not getting his weekend access for a while."


he'll probably be pissed and show his true colors to the judge and they dont take well to that..the judge i had was so friggin intimidating, we have alot going on in our case though, domestic violence and his suicide attempt etc. but when we went last time the judge didnt even say a word to me because he was busy reaming out their duty council..he couldnt even be bothered to show up to court, he sent his mommy lmao she has no idea what shes doing..she even tried to approach my lawyer! (cant do that)

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Mine has been haranguing me about weekend visits since my 35 week preemie was born. Riddle me that one ... [snip!] ... no matter what's in it or who gives it to him. So I'm curious how he'll feel about not getting his weekend access for a while."

Adding... he's BF but wasn't gaining enough for his pedi's liking so he was getting one bottle of formula a day. Which he's now refusing.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" he'll probably be pissed and show his true colors to the judge and they dont take well to that..the ... [snip!] ... show up to court, he sent his mommy lmao she has no idea what shes doing..she even tried to approach my lawyer! (cant do that)"

Yikes :? Well good luck with that lol.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" We've both found winners it seems lol. Mine seems to think mentally, emotionally and verbally abusing me (among bullying, manipulation, threats and lying) is going to get him what he wants."


hahaha oh boy, definitely winners! are you going for sole?

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" hahaha oh boy, definitely winners! are you going for sole?"

Yes. He lives 2+ hours away and doesn't see Bub very often. He thinks having joint custody will "force us to work together", but doing that won't benefit the baby in any way, because his parents can't work together.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Yes. He lives 2+ hours away and doesn't see Bub very often. He thinks having joint custody will "force ... [snip!] ... will "force us to work together", but doing that won't benefit the baby in any way, because his parents can't work together."


yea, i wouldnt be worried if i were u lol

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" yea, i wouldnt be worried if i were u lol"

I'm not. Really. Judges scare me so I'm just worried I'll cry in the court room >.<

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" I'm not. Really. Judges scare me so I'm just worried I'll cry in the court room >.<"


ha, you should of seen me, we had to sit at those tables infront of the judge and like i said, he didnt even look at me and i had tears and my lawyer was like..are u ok? hahahah i was just so intimidated

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" ha, you should of seen me, we had to sit at those tables infront of the judge and like i said, he didnt ... [snip!] ... and like i said, he didnt even look at me and i had tears and my lawyer was like..are u ok? hahahah i was just so intimidated"

Right?! :shock:



I had court in November to update the agreement with my daughter's dad. We'd gone to mediation and everything was civil but I still stumbled over my words. Ugh lol.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Right?! :shock: I had court in November to update the agreement with my daughter's dad. We'd gone to mediation and everything was civil but I still stumbled over my words. Ugh lol."


ours might end up going to trial, ill legit shit my pants if i have to go on a stand lol

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" ours might end up going to trial, ill legit shit my pants if i have to go on a stand lol"

It's scary. I had to for my daughter's first court appearance. One her dad didn't even show up to.