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Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
19th Mar '13

I myself could never have my dad in the delivery room with me! I would just be so uncomfortable with him or any other relative seeing me pop a baby out of my vag! xD
DH has been the only one in the room with me (with the exception of DD when LO was born)

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
19th Mar '13

I do think it's weird, personally. I can't imagine any instance where it would be okay for a father to look at his grown daughter's vagina.



The Casey Anthony thing was just stupid, though. Just because you are sexually harrassed, molested or raped as a child does not mean you don't care about your children. Whoever said that just needs to shut up. Period.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" I don't judge just by that.. but the few times ... [snip!] ... waiting for DS to squeeze out if he thought it was a turn on and a real good sexual experience........ I doubt it. :roll:"

DH was happy for the 6 week no sex period lol He joked he was going to have nightmares after watching DD come out lol

They call me mama. 18 kids; La Verne, California 3222 posts
19th Mar '13

My dad was in the room but stayed behind the curtain and didn't see anything not that it would REALLY matter much if he did see anything. Giving birth isn't sexual or anything to be ashamed of.
He would have been there for my sons birth as well I'm sure but he was in Afghanistan this time around. I'm actually bummed out he missed out on experiencing his grandsons birth.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5359 posts
19th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" I do think it's weird, personally. I can't imagine any instance where it would be okay for a father to look at his grown daughter's vagina."</blockquote>




I do. When he is watching the beautiful birth of his grandchild :roll:

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
19th Mar '13

I see nothing wrong with it what-so-ever. In fact, I applaud him for wanting to be there. You go girl, for having such a great, caring dad. :)

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15015 posts
status 19th Mar '13
Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" I do think it's weird, personally. I can't imagine any instance where it would be okay for a father to ... [snip!] ... molested or raped as a child does not mean you don't care about your children. Whoever said that just needs to shut up. Period."


Do you think it's not possible to a man to look at a vagina in a nonsexual way?

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5359 posts
19th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" DH was happy for the 6 week no sex period lol He joked he was going to have nightmares after watching DD come out lol "</blockquote>




Lol DH and I repeatedly stated he would stay by my head the entire time, however when the time came his emotions just took over and he wanted to see DS being born, beautiful moment :)

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" I do think it's weird, personally. ... [snip!] ... at his grown daughter's vagina."</blockquote> I do. When he is watching the beautiful birth of his grandchild :roll:"


Roll your eyes all you want. It's still my opinion.

♥Rach♥ 2 kids; Arizona 12875 posts
19th Mar '13

I don't see anything wrong with it at all. My dad was in the room until right before they broke my water. It made both of us more comfortable for him to wait in the waiting room, but that was just my personal preference. I understand why some people find it weird, though.

lil' momma 1831 2 kids; Middletown, Ohio 170 posts
19th Mar '13

i had my dad in the room but didn't have him watch. i wasn't sure if i wanted him in there so he stayed in the corner of the room. even though my dad and i were close. i am really glad i did because a month after my son was born we found out he had terminal cancer and lived a little over two years after that. so it was special moment for me to have him there when i look back on it.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5359 posts
19th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" Roll your eyes all you want. It's still my opinion."</blockquote>




Yes it is your opinion and it's a completely perverted and disgusting way of thinking but hey if that's the way your mind works not much that can be done about that.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Do you think it's not possible to a man to look at a vagina in a nonsexual way?"


Of course I do. I didn't imply otherwise.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
19th Mar '13

My dad was in the room when my second daughter (stillborn) was born. If I had realized that he was going to stay, I would have asked him to leave the room while I was pushing. At the time though, I obviously had other things on my mind. I wasn't uncomfortable until after she was born and they left my legs spread wide open while they explained her cord and such.



He wasn't invited to either of my other births.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
19th Mar '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" Roll your eyes all you want. It's ... [snip!] ... perverted and disgusting way of thinking but hey if that's the way your mind works not much that can be done about that."


I didn't say anything that implied it was for perverted reasoning. I simply said I didn't find it appropriate. You are the one who brought up perversion, so if you're going to question anyone's mind, look at your own.