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*** mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
20th Mar '13

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GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
20th Mar '13

I could never do it.. Im the jealous type.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting My boys=My life~10weeks:" I could never do it.. Im the jealous type."


I am not but I am afraid this could bring it out.

lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 5980 posts
20th Mar '13

Nothing positive will ever come from this.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45914 posts
20th Mar '13

Are you talking about a t*******e or him having a relationship separate from your own?

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20211 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!:



He doesn't need someone to take care of him.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


this!! i could never do that

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118854 posts
20th Mar '13

I really dont think now is the best time to explore this, not while pregnant. You have so many emotions going on that often make you feel ways you dont want to feel. I would wait and reassess at a later time, when you both can be involved since your OP indicates you want a girlfriend for both of you.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!:

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!: I've heard NOTHING but horror stories and death sentences for relationships from this kinda thing
Even if you aren't the jealous type NORMALLY.....this deff could bring it out.
I could never do it, I'd kill a b***h lol

user banned California 36390 posts
20th Mar '13

Do you mean you want to all three be together? Or him go outside the marriage? For just sex or a relationship too?

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9268 posts
20th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" I really dont think now is the best time to explore this, not while pregnant. You have so many emotions ... [snip!] ... and reassess at a later time, when you both can be involved since your OP indicates you want a girlfriend for both of you. "</blockquote>



:!:

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Do you mean you want to all three be together? Or him go outside the marriage? For just sex or a relationship too?"


It would have to be someone that we would both be with, and probably not just sex.

Mommy2ThreeLilMonkeys 3 kids; California 5005 posts
20th Mar '13

marriage is between two people not three, nothing good will come of this.Once you let someone step over those sacred boundaries and security of marriage, you are opening it up for all kinds of issues...I have seen friends of mine have a lot of issue with this..its horrible idea IMHO
if you have low sex drive, maybe you need to find a way to get into the mood... or maybe take one for the team and pleasure him in other ways.



if you do chose to do it, good luck. i'll pray for you & hope everything will work out okay for you.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
20th Mar '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" I really dont think now is the best time to explore this, not while pregnant. You have so many emotions ... [snip!] ... and reassess at a later time, when you both can be involved since your OP indicates you want a girlfriend for both of you. "


I have thought about that. I might feel left out or feel like he prefers her or worse.