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♥Daenerys 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8216 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting Destiel:" Is he going to be at the birth?"


Yeah he will be, why do you ask?

♥Daenerys 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8216 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting -()-()-()-:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snippy:</b>" Honestly to me he just sounds like he's too scared ... [snip!] ... your first baby boy and he's scared to be attached to your pregnancy. Have you tried talking to him about it more in depth?"


I have, it pretty much goes nowhere. He doesn't really open up, never has. I understand if he's having a hard time because of what happened to our first son, but I mean we HAVE to pick a name, regardless. And it's frustrating that I've been trying for months now, and it's got me nowhere. Tonight he did say he likes the name Avery... but my little cousin, who is a girl, is named Avery, so is another little boy I know, and it's one of my really good friends last name. Plus, it's too girly IMO. But when I tried to keep the conversation going after that, he stopped talking again...

Daniee Due December 25; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Lynnwood, Washington 3315 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Daenerys:</b>" I have, it pretty much goes nowhere. He doesn't really open up, never has. I understand if he's having ... [snip!] ... last name. Plus, it's too girly IMO. But when I tried to keep the conversation going after that, he stopped talking again..."</blockquote>



Avery reminds me of dr.avery on greys anatomy lol.
I like it actually!
Anyways what if you compromised and did Asher Avery then whatever his last name?



I'm glad he actually said something to you about it. I am sorry he's being such a pain. :/
Hopefully after your sons born every thing will change and he will be more attached.

Nae&Zoe's Mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Red Deer, Alberta 657 posts
22nd Mar '13

My gosh hun, I dont know how you put up with that!! I would loose my mind. In a sense I can understand that it might be alot of issues for him because of loosing your child. Some ppl close off and dont get their hopes up in case (preparing themselves for the worst)... Was he like this during your first pregnancy??

♥Daenerys 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8216 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting Nae&Zoe's Mommy:" My gosh hun, I dont know how you put up with that!! I would loose my mind. In a sense I can understand ... [snip!] ... off and dont get their hopes up in case (preparing themselves for the worst)... Was he like this during your first pregnancy??"


He was in the beginning of my pregnancy with my daughter, which was after the loss of our son, but by 5 months he snapped out of it, and was really excited. He would come home from work and be like, "Are you in labor yet!?" Because he was anxious to meet her. This pregnancy, he's been distant the whole time, every ultrasound he just sat quietly in the furthest chair he could find in the room (to the ones he actually went to, that is). It's been really hard on me, and this whole name thing is just frustrating the hell out of me, I mean I've cried over it several times because I'm so confused on what to do/pick. Now he's trying to tell me we are naming him Avery... I'm like no, you haven't wanted to be involved one bit this pregnancy, so why should you pick the name? I don't know what to do.

Nae&Zoe's Mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Red Deer, Alberta 657 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting ♥Daenerys:" He was in the beginning of my pregnancy with my daughter, which was after the loss of our son, but by ... [snip!] ... like no, you haven't wanted to be involved one bit this pregnancy, so why should you pick the name? I don't know what to do."

Thats sooo bizzare.......... I think you need to have sit down talk with him and see what his issue is. There is definitley more going on with him that you may not know (what it sounds like to me). He def could be depressed and scared about loosing another child... Was he excited at all when you guys found out you were expecting again?? Or was this a beautiful suprise?? Reguardless he shouldnt be putting you through this. He needs to support you even if he is scared. It wasnt just his baby you lost, this was yours as well and you both should be working through the loss together. He really needs to open up and talk and stop being so selfish cause not only do you need him your unborn baby needs a loving supportive daddy too. Good luck mama PM me if you ever need to chat!! *hugs*