Quoting Colt's mommy:" lol @ "no harsh comments" This sounds like a pattern for him, so you should not be surprised about his ... [snip!] ... your own and leave his ass, or just have an open relationship and that way he won't have to keep lying to you. Good luck girl!"
Once a liar and cheat, they will ALWAYS do it.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Seriously! Once a liar and cheat, they will ALWAYS do it. "</blockquote>
Not always... I cheated on my ex and lied constantly to him as he did it to me, but I would never do that to my husband because I actually truely love him.
OP I can understand you want to be with this douche to keep your family together, but what would you do if your daughter was with a guy like that? That isn't love that is a toxic relationship and you are more then likely to be the one that gets hurt in the end... again! Its not her fault that he is leading her on and playing head games with the both of you. I hate seeing people unhappy in a relationship because they don't want to be alone, there are really great guys out there, please don't settle for this dude!!
<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Zeke's Mama:</b>" Wait...did they or didn't they hook up? You ... [snip!] ... They had hooked up before but i know he hasnt done anything with her since we have been back together...."</blockquote>
OK then why be mad at her? She's done nothing wrong where as your husband has.
Sounds like a real winner.
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" Don't be pissed off at her. He's the one messing up and honestly you're a fool for getting back with ... [snip!] ... He used his co workers and now he's using you. Good luck with your "relationship"... if that's what you even want to call it."
This. Something the OP said pissed me off "do i say something to her? She hooked up with him knowing he lived with his pregnant gf has a wife and 4 kids with 1 on the way. What kind of person does that??"
SERIOUSLY? Why are you blaming the girl, she doesnt have an obligation to you. She owes you NOTHING. You should be asking what kind of man you have right under your nose that is deceitful... HE has the obligation. Not the girl. To bash her makes you look trivial. You are blaming the wrong person.
<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" This. Something the OP said pissed me off "do i say something to her? She hooked up with him knowing ... [snip!] ... that is deceitful... HE has the obligation. Not the girl. To bash her makes you look trivial. You are blaming the wrong person."</blockquote>