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Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supercalifragil.......:</b>" Wow OP. You made her seem like she planned those children or something. I personally wouldn't judge her. ... [snip!] ... She was also a GREAT mother and her husband provided for her and every single one of their kids. Now, she's pregnant again."</blockquote>



Where were her parents and how old was this "husband"?



Four kids by eighteen is not something to admire. And I highly doubt a fifteen year old could be a "great mother."

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supercalifragil.......:</b>" Wow OP. You made her seem like ... [snip!] ... "husband"? Four kids by eighteen is not something to admire. And I highly doubt a fifteen year old could be a "great mother.""</blockquote>



Why? Because of her age? :roll: If so, I've seen some teenagers be better parents than older moms. Even some here on BG, just by the shit some post. If a teenager has the resources SHE can be a great mother.



If it was my situation I'd give you all the details. Yet I don't know shit about her husband but the fact that he DID take care of them. They lived alone and he payed for daycare so she could go to school.



Even payed for her school and she is a RN now.



So I'm sorry, but I will have to disagree with you. Although very unlikely, a teenage CAN be a good mother and CAN be successful.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
22nd Mar '13

I would think who cares, and the ones who do care need to mind their own business and worry about their own families.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45864 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting SAFFY
user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting Supercalifragil.......:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... I'm sorry, but I will have to disagree with you. Although very unlikely, a teenage CAN be a good mother and CAN be successful."



I agree. back in the day a friend of mine was 12.5 yrs old when she had her son. She was living on her own and going to school at 14 yrs old. She had odd jobs that she did around the town (super small town) of like 200 people. lol

She payed her own daycare and payed her own rent by working . she babysat other peoples kids she did yard work and driveways in the winter till she was 16 and could legally work, and she was still going to school and taking care of her son and doing school.
At 17 she went to school for cooking and baking and had her 2nd child (with her now husband) but fast forward to now she owns her own bakery and has since she was 19 yrs old and has been married about 7 yrs now and has 4 kids and is now 26 or 27. lol

Alot of young moms and or dads can handle life raising kids.

michele is expecting Due October 28 (boy); New York, New York 319 posts
22nd Mar '13

i cant judge her

Lucid Dreamer Florida 3829 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" I agree. back in the day a friend of mine was 12.5 yrs old when she had her son. She was living on ... [snip!] ... about 7 yrs now and has 4 kids and is now 26 or 27. lol Alot of young moms and or dads can handle life raising kids."

That's an amazing and inspiring story about your friend

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting crazy coupon lady:</b>" I agree. back in the day a friend of mine was 12.5 yrs old when she had her son. She was living on ... [snip!] ... about 7 yrs now and has 4 kids and is now 26 or 27. lol Alot of young moms and or dads can handle life raising kids."</blockquote>




That is amazing!! Glad for her. I used to speak up teenage parents, and if I still had my group. I'd love for her to talk to the girls that are about ready to give up. It warms my heart hearing stories like this.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting Supercalifragil.......:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... I'm sorry, but I will have to disagree with you. Although very unlikely, a teenage CAN be a good mother and CAN be successful."


Never said that couldn't be successful. :roll:



However, praising someone who had four kids by 18 is stupid. Just stupid.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Never said that couldn't be successful. :roll: However, praising someone who had four kids by 18 is stupid. Just stupid. "</blockquote>



How is it stupid. She IS a great mother. I'm not going to belittle that just because she had them in her teenage years. That would be stupid.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
22nd Mar '13
Quoting Supercalifragil.......:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Never said that couldn't be successful. ... [snip!] ... She IS a great mother. I'm not going to belittle that just because she had them in her teenage years. That would be stupid."


I see you live in La La land, but here in the real world, having four kids by 18 IS stupid. I can't believe you are even advocating have kids at 15.



And don't even go there with that belittling garbage. I worked at a teen pregnancy center. The founder was a teen mom of 1. She struggled, but worked her ass off to become very successful. The difference? She wasn't stupid enough to bring a second baby into the world that she couldn't take care of, let alone sugarcoat teen pregnancy as you are doing right now. It is NOT something to be proud of, and being a teen mom is NOT something one should aspire to be.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
22nd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" I see you live in La La land, but here in the real world, having four kids by 18 IS stupid. I can't ... [snip!] ... as you are doing right now. It is NOT something to be proud of, and being a teen mom is NOT something one should aspire to be. "</blockquote>



Hello. No one is talking about teen pregnancy here. I'm talking about one PARTICULAR teenage girl who COULD take care of the kids who she brought to this world so I don't know what the f**k you're talking about. Just like you are praising that one girl for having a kid young and becoming successful. I'm praising the one I KNEW. I don't know why the f**k you're taking that and applying it to every other teen pregnancy. :roll: