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I need some help on this... [♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
21st Mar '13

OMG ladies.... I haven't been on that much. work and school plus the kids consume my life. I have some sad news to report. My daughters father and his girlfriend were expecting in July 2013.... However she went into labor and they were unable to stop it. Since she was past 21 weeks they had her deliver :( she gave birth to a baby girl they named Kali. She passed shortly after. They are both so broken I don't even know what to say. I cannot imagine giving birth and having to say goodbye. What do I do? Ladies im so lost. He turned to me for sympathy but I don't want to say the wrong thing. I have miscarried before but to me.... The feeling is not the same :(

Jessica + 2 34 kids; Texas 7364 posts
21st Mar '13

just give him a huge hug and let him cry in your arms if he does. Nothing you can say can make this better.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18566 posts
21st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:</b>" OMG ladies.... I haven't been on that much. work and school plus the kids consume my life. I have some ... [snip!] ... me for sympathy but I don't want to say the wrong thing. I have miscarried before but to me.... The feeling is not the same :("</blockquote>




All you can do is be there as a compassionate, empathetic ear for them!

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
21st Mar '13
Quoting Jessica Lea Bell:" just give him a huge hug and let him cry in your arms if he does. Nothing you can say can make this better."


that's exactly how I feel. This is the second child they have lost. the first was in her first trimester. and now this one. I just feel so bad. she was so excited.

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
21st Mar '13
Quoting S U Z I E:" <blockquote><b>Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:</b>" OMG ladies.... I haven't been ... [snip!] ... The feeling is not the same :("</blockquote> All you can do is be there as a compassionate, empathetic ear for them!"


You both are right! I thought about buying a sympathy card.... is that too much?