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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" yeah i know exactly how that is lol. guys are lucky they dont have to go through what us females have ... [snip!] ... through lol im anna btw :) noone is awke to talk to so i come on here because i know females here can help me get through this."


My SO makes sure that I have time to myself. He also helps equally around the house, and takes the reins when I need a break. This isn't a male thing, it's an a*****e thing.

*MOMMY&WIFE* 1 child; Washington, Pennsylvania 35 posts
23rd Mar '13

i cant go anywhere or do anything anymore. i feel like i have failed them both already. im trying my best but with post partum depression its so hard to just wake up one day and be glorious happy. i just wish life wasnt such a b***h. i just wish i could have a girls day out with some of my girls. itd be nice to finally get out and have some fun again.

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" My SO makes sure that I have time to myself. He also helps equally around the house, and takes the reins when I need a break. This isn't a male thing, it's an a*****e thing. "


My husband works 12 hr shifts mon-friday and 8hrs on sat, with an 1hr and 15min drive each way. I don't really ask him to do much around the house since he really isn't here very much.

*MOMMY&WIFE* 1 child; Washington, Pennsylvania 35 posts
23rd Mar '13

he does help out with our son. i let him sleep through the nights because he works to support us. im a good wife and a good mother and i believe that he needs more sleep then i do i dont care that he gets more sleep then i do i just want more time together. i just want summer here already. i need to call up my girls and plan for a girls night out i would feel so much better i just need some female friends right now:/

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" i cant go anywhere or do anything anymore. i feel like i have failed them both already. im trying my ... [snip!] ... b***h. i just wish i could have a girls day out with some of my girls. itd be nice to finally get out and have some fun again."


ppd is rough. Some time away for just you would help. I don;t have ppd anymore but I still wish I could get out and get away for a while.

*MOMMY&WIFE* 1 child; Washington, Pennsylvania 35 posts
23rd Mar '13

no red bottom its not. he does his best to get us by im not the only one that gets stressed out its just i have ppd and it sucks because i dont want it anymore i want it to go away i wanna be me again ive been working so hard to get my old self back i just need a day out with all my girls to talk about female stuff and our love lives

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Chocolate Milk:</b>" I'm jealous of that too. Like could you hold out for a few minutes so I don't feel so broken for not being able to fall asleep like that?"</blockquote>




Makes me want to punch him I was his head lol

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" i cant go anywhere or do anything anymore. i feel like i have failed them both already. im trying my ... [snip!] ... b***h. i just wish i could have a girls day out with some of my girls. itd be nice to finally get out and have some fun again."


Is it PPD or is it the fact that your husband is a lazy dickhead and you're essentially a single mom and married to someone not doing a damn thing to help you or the child he helped you create?

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting {tamz}:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... head hits the pillow lol"</blockquote> This! Also he's deaf so when she's screaming, he doesn't wake up...only me. :/"</blockquote>




This JUST happened. He was screaming nonstop for 20 minutes. I come back to bed and what is this dick doing? Laying there asleep with his hands behind his head all cool and relaxed sweating on MY pillows. Jerk lol

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:</b>" no red bottom its not. he does his best to get us by im not the only one that gets stressed out its just ... [snip!] ... working so hard to get my old self back i just need a day out with all my girls to talk about female stuff and our love lives"</blockquote>



Did the doctor give you anything for your ppd?

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" no red bottom its not. he does his best to get us by im not the only one that gets stressed out its just ... [snip!] ... working so hard to get my old self back i just need a day out with all my girls to talk about female stuff and our love lives"


You saying he's trying his best to help you financially, but what does he do to help YOU feel good about yourself? To help YOU with the baby?

*MOMMY&WIFE* 1 child; Washington, Pennsylvania 35 posts
23rd Mar '13

he is not a dickhead stop disrespecting my husband like that you dont know him. he tells me im beautiful and he spends time with our son when hes home from work okay and he is ana amzing man so please just stop . and it is my ppd ive had it since i gave birth at 33 weeks.... and no im going to the gyno on the 26th ill see if they will there.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" he is not a dickhead stop disrespecting my husband like that you dont know him. he tells me im beautiful ... [snip!] ... it is my ppd ive had it since i gave birth at 33 weeks.... and no im going to the gyno on the 26th ill see if they will there."


You just said that you're the only one who wakes up with the baby at night and that he's always going out with his friends and leaving you at home by yourself with the baby....



so be honest with yourself. is he wonderful or is he a dickhead?

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You just said that you're the only one who wakes up with the baby at night and that he's always going ... [snip!] ... friends and leaving you at home by yourself with the baby.... so be honest with yourself. is he wonderful or is he a dickhead?"


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