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♥TwinsRock♥ 2 kids; Buffalo, New York 4471 posts
23rd Mar '13

I absolutely would abort. No questions asked. I'm married and could not imagine having a child with any other man let alone my rapist...

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
23rd Mar '13

I would definitely abort in that case. I don't think I could handle having a constant reminder of something like that.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
23rd Mar '13

Without a doubt I would abort. Yes solely based on the fact that it was conceived out of rape.. wouldn't be fair to the potential child for me to keep it because I would forever look at that child and think of the rape.. and adoption isn't for me.

user banned New York 15996 posts
23rd Mar '13

I'd abort no questions asked.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
23rd Mar '13

I would abort without a doubt. No way I could carry and give birth to a baby who was a result of rape.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117372 posts
23rd Mar '13

I would abort no questions asked.

Riley+Abby Due October 4; 1 child; Toronto, Ontario 2366 posts
23rd Mar '13

There is no doubt in my mind that I would choose to keep the baby. 100% and over, I would not abort.

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
23rd Mar '13

i honestly dont think i could. but i have never been pregnant from rape so i cant be sure that is how i would feel in the real situation.

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31339 posts
23rd Mar '13

I would abort & I doubt I'd have regrets.

user banned Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5125 posts
23rd Mar '13

Even if you were "pro-life"? I found that's another difficult thing to get over was that I was SUPER pro life before I was put in a situation where I couldn't be.

Hotpocket Due September 27; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Birmingham, Alabama 985 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Loka Lokita (23):</b>" If you ever became pregnant from a rape, would you keep it? Would you abort based SOLEY on the fact that ... [snip!] ... both as threatened. Plus, my baby boy now was 100% planned and I am at such a great place in my life to have him right now..."</blockquote>




Honestly I'm not sure if I would abort or adopt but I know I would not be able to raise a child that would remind me every day of the hell and pain that comes with being raped. It would not be fair to me or the child and I am not nearly strong enough for that kind of mental torture. And I don't think you should regret it hun. If the man that raped you had threatened your life like that there is no way that child would have ever been able to have a good life. And I know no mother would want a child to have to live like that. Always afraid of their biological father.

Mann Makin' Mama[BBM] 18 kids; Dalton, Georgia 11563 posts
23rd Mar '13

I don't think I'd abort if I was ever in that situation. I think I'd adopt it out. It's just really tough for me to give that an accurate answer having not been through it.

Riley+Abby Due October 4; 1 child; Toronto, Ontario 2366 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting Loka Lokita (23):" Even if you were "pro-life"? I found that's another difficult thing to get over was that I was SUPER pro life before I was put in a situation where I couldn't be."


I'm also super pro-life, so...



But I wouldn't be aborting, and I could see myself keeping the baby.

Smash Fins ; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 1289 posts
23rd Mar '13

I would definitely abort.



However, I had a friend that was raped and she put the baby up for adoption... The adoptive parents were so grateful because she gave them a chance to have a baby. It's honestly a heartwarming story.