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trying to conceive tabi3186 TTC since Aug 2011; Covington, Georgia 16 posts
23rd Mar '13

Im soon to be 27. Ive been trying really hard to conceive with my fiance for 2years. Ive been tracking my CM an im in what they call creamy stage. Where it feels like hand lotion. Which ive read is a good sign on numerous sites. Ive had intercourse for a day and ive experienced diluted blood looks a little orangish. Right after intercourse.like blood mixed with semen. Tmi i know but i cant afford a doc right now sorry. :( My most fertile days are the 27-31 of march. The days ive detected. I was wondering if anyone could help me with the diluted blood that looks orangish? Its not infection because i checked my CM before intercourse.sorry if tmi but my fiance masterbates before intercourse so i know its not him. If anyone can help it would be great. I cant find any info on the net. Is it normal to have diluted blood that looks orangish? Im def gonna keep trying regardless. I want to experience the whole pregnancy-motherhood is getting to me.The feeling to be a mom is getting stronger. Please help if you have any ideas. Thanks so much!

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
23rd Mar '13

If you can't afford a doc now, how will you afford your ob appointments? There will be many and they aren't cheap

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6955 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting The Pretender:" If you can't afford a doc now, how will you afford your ob appointments? There will be many and they aren't cheap"


THIS:!::!::!::!::!::!:

tabi3186 TTC since Aug 2011; Covington, Georgia 16 posts
23rd Mar '13

I understand where your coming from. Where i live you cant get insurance without being preggo. Please dont judge me. Im doing my best an im just looking for opinions from woman who have had children. I Would never let my child go without. Advicei s all that i need.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
23rd Mar '13

You can't get any insurance unless you're pregnant? Are you in the US??

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6955 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting tabi3186:" I understand where your coming from. Where i live you cant get insurance without being preggo. Please ... [snip!] ... just looking for opinions from woman who have had children. I Would never let my child go without. Advicei s all that i need."


Please do not tell me you are getting pregnant so you can get one Medicaid?

M+1 1 child; Ballarat, Australia 1549 posts
23rd Mar '13

I'm glad medical is free in AB. Before I knew I was pregnant I bled a lot after intercourse. I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant when I bled.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Please do not tell me you are getting pregnant so you can get one Medicaid? "</blockquote>




That is EXACTLY what I suspected- just wanted to make sure she wasn't in another weird country that had weird rules about ins?

merlo +3 3 kids; Campton Hills, Illinois 1242 posts
23rd Mar '13

Honey noone's trying to judge you. But you need to be smart & think about what you are doing. Babies are very expensive.... get your life together first.

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6955 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting merlo +2 (+1 baking):" Honey noone's trying to judge you. But you need to be smart & think about what you are doing. Babies are very expensive.... get your life together first."


THIS:!::!::!::!::!::!:
Get married, a house, a career, live a little and then have kids. I did it backwards and now I am stressed out.

tabi3186 TTC since Aug 2011; Covington, Georgia 16 posts
23rd Mar '13

Please just help. I dont want drama with someone else trying to make me feel bad. I feel bad enough. My ex that i was with for 7 years he is now married an having a baby. ive never been pg with him. So these 2 years with my fiance now has been hard. If you can tell me anything please do.

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6955 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting The Pretender:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Please do not tell me you are getting pregnant ... [snip!] ... That is EXACTLY what I suspected- just wanted to make sure she wasn't in another weird country that had weird rules about ins?"


No I am assuming she is like me. Stuck in the middle. Make too much for medicaid but no health insurance available to you. It sucks but I would never EVER get pregnant on purpose solely for the purposes of having it. When I got pregnant with LO I thought I was screwed because I would be paying for everything out of pocket. I did not even know it was available to me.

HanaK 1 child; Tennessee 966 posts
23rd Mar '13

It's the same here in Tennessee, babies-20yrs old or if youre over 20 and youre preganant u can get Medicade . Oh and I think if you're like a single mom or something???

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
23rd Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting merlo +2 (+1 baking):</b>" Honey noone's trying to judge you. But you need to be smart & think about what you are doing. Babies are very expensive.... get your life together first."</blockquote>




! Exactly. And doctors visits end up being the cheap part of pregnancy compared to the things you'd need for a house, possibly paying for a delivery/c section, prenatal care/vitamins, healthier foods. And what if there is a complicated pregnancy? Then AFTER the baby gets here

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6955 posts
23rd Mar '13
Quoting tabi3186:" Please just help. I dont want drama with someone else trying to make me feel bad. I feel bad enough. ... [snip!] ... a baby. ive never been pg with him. So these 2 years with my fiance now has been hard. If you can tell me anything please do."



Do not try and play "Tit for tat" with your ex just because he is having a baby does not mean you should. If you have not conceived in two years. Maybe it is just not the right time for you.