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user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" Thank you sending some your way also! It still hasn't completely sunk in yet that I really am going to be a mommy!"</blockquote>




Thank you!!! I know what you mean! Like I know I'm pregnant but it just hasn't sunk in yet. I'm guessing it will when I have my first ultrasound and I start bawling! lol

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" Thank you sending some your way ... [snip!] ... know I'm pregnant but it just hasn't sunk in yet. I'm guessing it will when I have my first ultrasound and I start bawling! lol"


I don't think I will till I start getting a real belly and am not just bloating to no end lol. Or maybe after quickening when I can feel baby moving. Right now all I have is two hpts, a proof of pregnancy paper from the doctor, and the need to pee all the time lol.

user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" I don't think I will till I start getting a real belly and am not just bloating to no end lol. Or maybe ... [snip!] ... moving. Right now all I have is two hpts, a proof of pregnancy paper from the doctor, and the need to pee all the time lol."</blockquote>




I'm sure ill cry at everything. I've waited way too long for this! I can't wait for all the milestones. And I need to pee all the time too!

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" I don't think I will till I start ... [snip!] ... cry at everything. I've waited way too long for this! I can't wait for all the milestones. And I need to pee all the time too!"


Oh I know I'm going to cry I am just in the state of "okay don't get too excited yet". I guess a miscarriage and a few chemicals will do that though.



SO is actually excited about this one but I doubt he will cry at anything other than maybe the birth lol



Fingers crossed and lots of Sticky dust!

user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" Oh I know I'm going to cry I am just in the state of "okay don't get too excited yet". I guess a miscarriage ... [snip!] ... about this one but I doubt he will cry at anything other than maybe the birth lol Fingers crossed and lots of Sticky dust!"</blockquote>




I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriages! :-( we had a chemical last month. Thank you for the sticky dust. Sending it back to you!

Noelles Mama Due November 29; 17 kids; Arizona 2434 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting ♥ Dani ♥:" Hey girls... welcome and congrats to those that just got their bfps!!! Ive been up since 3 and cant ... [snip!] ... im freaking out about mc. not because im spotting or anything like that. i just cant get the damn thought out of my head. :("


I feel the same way as you do! My husband keeps reminding me to stay positive and really there isn't anything you can do to prevent it from happening. I hate thinking such negative things...but I have gone through one already so its hard not to think of the what ifs!

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" Oh I know I'm going to cry I am ... [snip!] ... sorry to hear about your miscarriages! :-( we had a chemical last month. Thank you for the sticky dust. Sending it back to you!"


That is so weird we had a chemical last month too! It really upset me that SO keeps saying "see I told you you weren't pregnant last month. Those lines were not nearly as dark as these are!"... Jerk lol.



So glad you got your BFP this month. Who knows maybe our babies will be born the same day lol

user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" That is so weird we had a chemical last month too! It really upset me that SO keeps saying "see I told ... [snip!] ... as these are!"... Jerk lol. So glad you got your BFP this month. Who knows maybe our babies will be born the same day lol"</blockquote>




DH didn't get excited with this pregnancy when I showed him the test. He was nervous about another chemical but when our beta came back with a good number he was a little bit better.



Glad you got yours too!!! That would be cool if we had them on the same day!!! I love talking to moms about pregnancy etc but its nice to have a first time mom to chat with too!

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" That is so weird we had a chemical ... [snip!] ... had them on the same day!!! I love talking to moms about pregnancy etc but its nice to have a first time mom to chat with too!"


We haven't had any blood tests done yet, waiting to get an appointment. But these lines were a heck of a lot darker. SO isn't a very emotional person so just the fact that he smiled and has started telling people shows me he is happy and excited.



Yes, it is nice to have others to talk to. I appreciate the advice from the mom's with other kids but its different when its your first time I think. Its all knew and you don't know what to expect. I keep getting paranoid because I have been cramping a lot. Nothing major just super mild cramps that I only notice when I'm not doing anything. They don't feel like my mc at all but it still worries me.

user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" We haven't had any blood tests done yet, waiting to get an appointment. But these lines were a heck ... [snip!] ... super mild cramps that I only notice when I'm not doing anything. They don't feel like my mc at all but it still worries me."</blockquote>




We used fertility treatments to get pregnant so they do blood work to test hcg then I go back 48 hours later to check it again. Hopefully it doubled since yesterday!



I have those mild cramps too! It worries me too. Hoping for the best though.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" We haven't had any blood tests done ... [snip!] ... it again. Hopefully it doubled since yesterday! I have those mild cramps too! It worries me too. Hoping for the best though."


According to everything I have read and all my friends that I have asked its a pretty common early pregnancy symptom. That as long as they don't get worse, or there is bleeding, its normal.

user banned Due December 8; 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" According to everything I have read and all my friends that I have asked its a pretty common early pregnancy symptom. That as long as they don't get worse, or there is bleeding, its normal. "</blockquote>




That's good to know! Thank you for sharing

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I declare a Time War:</b>" According to everything I have read ... [snip!] ... as they don't get worse, or there is bleeding, its normal. "</blockquote> That's good to know! Thank you for sharing"


NP! Glad I could help bring peace of mind!

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
2nd Apr '13

waiting for a call from the midwives, hope they take me on!! :) she said she'll call me today to let me know!

♥ Dani ♥ 2 kids; Washington 854 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Noelles Mama:</b>" I feel the same way as you do! My husband keeps reminding me to stay positive and really there isn't ... [snip!] ... I hate thinking such negative things...but I have gone through one already so its hard not to think of the what ifs! "</blockquote>




Yeah dh and i have been trying for 3+ years and have had 2 chemical pregnancies in that time so its always in the back of my mind. especially since i also had one before my dd. i keep looking at all the tests ive taken and telling my self that the only time that ive had this dark of tests was with my dd.