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♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
24th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:</b>" I'm remembering that a while ago there was a lady on Dr. Phil who did that to her child when he lied to her. There was a video of it. That poor kid cried and cried. Broke my heart. "</blockquote>




He ripped her a new a*****e for it too. Only an a*****e would reccomend that.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 120427 posts
status 24th Mar '13
Quoting ★Mommarazzi★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its actually recommended on many ... [snip!] ... water only. That's just mean. What you're saying, not having it bath water warm and no toys, I don't think that's abusive."


Yeah, thats the way you're supposed to do it. But I'm sure there are some people out there that do not do it that way, unfortunately.

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 33234 posts
24th Mar '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" She was found guilty of child abuse - http://articles.ktuu.com/2011-08-23/jessica-beagley_29920772"


Oh, yep! Her.

Melinda. 1 child; Deltona, Florida 31041 posts
24th Mar '13

That is cruel and abusive

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
24th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" How many of us swam in cold pools or the beach? Granted we werent forced to jump into a cold pool as ... [snip!] ... but I know I spent many hours playing in cold water and it didn't do me any emotional damage. I think smacking is worse."</blockquote>




Willingly playing and having fun on a Hott summer day, swimming is much different then being in trouble, and forced to get in a cold shower. Especially for a 2 year old.

♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Mar '13
Quoting ★Mommarazzi★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its actually recommended on many ... [snip!] ... water only. That's just mean. What you're saying, not having it bath water warm and no toys, I don't think that's abusive."


This. I understood just straight up ice cold from the OP, though I could be wrong.

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 33234 posts
24th Mar '13
Quoting ★Mommarazzi★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its actually recommended on many ... [snip!] ... water only. That's just mean. What you're saying, not having it bath water warm and no toys, I don't think that's abusive."


:!:
Pretty much this.
I'm thinking ice-cold showers.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
24th Mar '13

ice cold abuse. not as warm and comfortable as they like and no toys to show its not fun time after they play in poop acceptable.

A, E & W's mommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Bulgaria 16114 posts
status 24th Mar '13

I wouldn't call it abusive for a cool shower, but that's also different from cold.

Melinda. 1 child; Deltona, Florida 31041 posts
24th Mar '13
Quoting ★Mommarazzi★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its actually recommended on many ... [snip!] ... water only. That's just mean. What you're saying, not having it bath water warm and no toys, I don't think that's abusive."



I agree.

Even taking a cold shower when the power is out sucks hardcore. Lukewarm with no toys is completely different.

To clarify, when someone says cold shower, I'm thinking ice cold when it makes you shiver.

Jillian Lindsey 2 kids; Mosheim, Tennessee 2354 posts
24th Mar '13
Quoting ♫♥♬:" For poll question, have you done this? Me no and never would. This stems from a thread I was in earlier, ... [snip!] ... in earlier, a girl on here said she put her 2 yr old In a cold shower for playing with his poop. Do you find this as abuse?"


that is horrible! id call CPS if i ever heard from someone that they do that!

★Mommarazzi★ 1 child; Arkansas 9705 posts
24th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Yeah, thats the way you're supposed to do it. But I'm sure there are some people out there that do not do it that way, unfortunately."</blockquote>




Yeah the girl I knew that done it totally didn't do it right.

mom of three 3 kids; Missouri 5644 posts
24th Mar '13

My step sister was 9 and she was throwing a HUGE tantrum, she started cutting up the kitchen floor with a kitchen knife, my mom put her in a cold shower... It calmed her down. I wouldnt do it to my kids and I def. think its child abuse to do to a toddler!!

user banned Due September 14 (boy); 1 child; Rhode Island 6726 posts
24th Mar '13

The girl that OP is talking about specifically said a cool shower. To me that doesn't mean an ice cold shower.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
24th Mar '13

but the case of the russian boy getting sauced and cold showered was doubly horrible bc at their orphanages they dont get fed enough get 0 interaction and they cant form attachments. there is a momma on here that told her story. the babies dont cry bc they know no one will come to them the older toddlers have potties tied to their leg until they learn to go by themselves so lots of children are covered in poop and have no clothes. most of the kids girls and boys have hair cut shot or shaved to prevent lice and maintence. its horrible. for that mom to adopt a kid from such a place and not research what she was getting into then saucing him for hoarding food for him and his brother is all kinds of fucked up