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25th Mar '13

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Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting Jillian Lindsey:" if shes "normal" then she needs to be disciplined ive actually gone up to parents and told them to discipline ... [snip!] ... any other SN child that is being a brat or throwing a fit its the "normal" children and them need to learn how to behave period"

If you had ever gone up to me when my kid was throwing a temper tantrum, your ass would be on the way to the hospital and I would be on my way to jail because I beat the shit out of you.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" if shes "normal" then she needs to be disciplined ive actually gone up to parents and told them to discipline ... [snip!] ... any other SN child that is being a brat or throwing a fit its the "normal" children and them need to learn how to behave period"</blockquote>



You're a bitch. I fucking dare you to say that shit to my face...



One day you're gonna insult the wrong person.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting Rd.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jillian Lindsey:</b>" if shes "normal" then she needs to be ... [snip!] ... You're a bitch. I fucking dare you to say that shit to my face... One day you're gonna insult the wrong person."

oh I hope its me, I would sit there all smug in a holding cell knowing I kicked her ass

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" A little girl at target was having a temper tntrum. Screaming and throwing a fit. An old lady kept saying"whats ... [snip!] ... park under it and there is a nifty escalator for your cart.. So it comes down stairs to the pqrkinglot with you...... So cool"

is it just a cart escalator? One of our stores here has that, its so cool, but there is another store that locks your cart onto the regular escalator

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting Jillian Lindsey:" is it not the same as eat your veggies or you wont get dessert? thats a threat also i was honest with ... [snip!] ... (im guessing he doesnt act out here because he gets attention) but if chooses to throw one then i will give him two choices "


are you fucking serious?! No emotionally abusing your step son is NOT the same as not allowing them to have dessert......I feel so bad for the little boy.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ಌ:</b>" She's in a relationship with the step-sons dad. Found her facebook and the dad's facebook. "</blockquote>




Link?

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" oh I hope its me, I would sit there all smug in a holding cell knowing I kicked her ass"</blockquote>




Me and you both, her ass would be knocked out with one right hook to the jaw. She don't know the person she insults might be like me :) boxing since I was 9 with a little mixed martial arts. I prefer boxing though. There is no kicking the shit out of people for me, they are usually knocked out in one hit :) after that ill leave em alone.



It's a scary world though, you're likely to get shot saying it to the wrong person now a days :/

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ♫♥♬:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" oh I hope its me, I would sit there ... [snip!] ... that ill leave em alone. It's a scary world though, you're likely to get shot saying it to the wrong person now a days :/"

well we could sit in the holding cell together, looking all smug together, lol

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
26th Mar '13

Wow, I know I'm late but I just read through this whole thread and to the "step mother", please take some parenting classes or SOMETHING before you permanently damage that little boy any further. I went to school for ralry childhood education and child psychology and i cant tell you how ineffctive and truly damaging your stradegy for dealing with bad behavior is. Threatening him with beig sent to an abusive and neglectful environment that he fears is not even remotely comparable to withholding dessert. You would have to be an absolute fucking imbicile to think it is. He's two, correct? My daughter is two also, and afraid of the dark. If she throws a tantrum should I threaten to lock her in a dark closet? I'm betting you said no. Same concept for your step son. A couple of my favorite parenting related quotes are "remember, your child is not GIVING YOU a hard time, they are HAVING a hard time" And "you are raising a human being, not dealing with an inconvenience". If they are having an emotional breakdown, there is a reason for it and there is a solution, it's your job as their advocate to find out both and HELP them through. Threatening them and instilling fear, there by elliminating any trust they have in you, is not an appropriate or even conceivable parenting method. It's just cruel. What are you afraid of? Imagine if every time ou did something someone didn't like thy threatened you with that? It's a terrible way to be treated. Your step son should be able to see you and your home as an immovable safe place, not just a place and person he has to be perfect to be welcome at in order to escape abuse and neglect. Please stop using thr as a method of dealing with behavior issues. What do you plan to do with your daughter when she misbehaves? You can't send her off to an abusive mother somewhere.



And op, good for you! My children have never really had tantrums in public but I know the possibility exsists and I would have absolutely done the same thing in your shoes. What a bitchy old hag.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
26th Mar '13

She unsubscribed from the topic

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
26th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫♥♬:</b>" She unsubscribed from the topic"</blockquote>



I supposed I should have checked that before responding. Huh?



What an ignorant child.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting SavageDarling:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫♥♬:</b>" She unsubscribed from the topic"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... from the topic"</blockquote> I supposed I should have checked that before responding. Huh? What an ignorant child."


haha id say link her back to it :)
she does not want to hear the truth!

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting ♫♥♬:" haha id say link her back to it :) she does not want to hear the truth!"

:roll:

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25371 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting ♫♥♬:" haha id say link her back to it :) she does not want to hear the truth!"


She's heard enough of it. We're all just beating a dead horse at this point. All we can do is hope that SOMETHING sunk in and made her think, although probably not.