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welp, guess not FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13

unless certain things change and get addressed, it doesn't look like #2 will be coming anytime soon. if i'm expected to act like a single parent with one, i'm not adding another...

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
Mar 24th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Draco'sStalker:</b>" unless certain things change and get addressed, it doesn't look like #2 will be coming anytime soon. if i'm expected to act like a single parent with one, i'm not adding another..."</blockquote>




I know how you feel :( that's pretty much where I'm at now. I'm sorry momma. Hopefully you'll get the change your looking for

Sweeney Todd Due July 8 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Redlands, CA, United States 13269 posts
status Mar 24th '13

:(



sorry my friend.

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting JDeee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Draco'sStalker:</b>" unless certain things change and get addressed, ... [snip!] ... I know how you feel :( that's pretty much where I'm at now. I'm sorry momma. Hopefully you'll get the change your looking for"

if they don't change, i'll change them myself and some people are gonna be very unhappy...

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting Simply Mom:" :( sorry my friend."

thank you...:(



btw, i like your avi! :D

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Mar 24th '13

Sounds like you need to remove yourself from the relationship....



not getting pregnant by this dude sounds like a no-brainer.



But I sure as shit wouldn't be staying with someone who didn't help me with THEIR child.

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Mar 24th '13

Well that's good to hear until one of you gets a job and get our out on your own.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting JDeee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Draco'sStalker:</b>" unless certain things change and get addressed, ... [snip!] ... I know how you feel :( that's pretty much where I'm at now. I'm sorry momma. Hopefully you'll get the change your looking for"



Why do you continue to stay with someone who expects you to do everything for the baby they created?

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Sounds like you need to remove yourself from the relationship.... not getting pregnant by this dude ... [snip!] ... this dude sounds like a no-brainer. But I sure as shit wouldn't be staying with someone who didn't help me with THEIR child. "

it's actually more of his mom than anything. He helps with her at times when he's home. he's just working more than home.

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting May ♥:" Well that's good to hear until one of you gets a job and get our out on your own."

he has a job. thanks.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" it's actually more of his mom than anything. He helps with her at times when he's home. he's just working more than home."



What does his mother have to do with your relationship?



And this doesn't seem to match with the idea your OP is giving off.



Does he help or does he not?

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24363 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Why do you continue to stay with someone who expects you to do everything for the baby they created?"

he doesn't but it's like almost every time i try to ask him to do something with her, there is something his mom wants him to do instead

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Mar 24th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" What does his mother have to do with your relationship? And this doesn't seem to match with the idea your OP is giving off. Does he help or does he not?"</blockquote>




She can never keep her story straight.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Mar 24th '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" he doesn't but it's like almost every time i try to ask him to do something with her, there is something his mom wants him to do instead"


Such as?
What does he say?

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Mar 24th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Draco'sStalker:</b>" he has a job. thanks."</blockquote>




But not in your own home huh? I would not be bringing another baby into that environment with all those cats. :?