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sex TMI ameillia Due June 26; 2 kids; Winnsboro, Texas 355 posts
25th Mar '13

I have absolutely no interest in sex right now which I know is normal during pregnancy. But I can't do that to my hubby so I go through with it anyway. But it hurts like hell afterwards. I'm already swollen down there and adding sex to it just makes it more uncomfortable. Has anyone else felt this way?

[♥]Mrs. Taylor 18 kids; Texas 12250 posts
25th Mar '13

I'm feeling that way now. I sit in a warm bath for the swelling.

Jennifer Lynn Griswold 3 kids; Sierra Vista, Arizona 4 posts
25th Mar '13

I have the same problem but my husband really wants it so I deal with it to what I do is just go with it and take Tylenol afterwards and also a warm bath helps with the pain or I know TMI but a BJ can help him also. Just talk with him and try different positions till you find one that works :) good luck!

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
25th Mar '13

using a good lube may help w/the swelling and irritation. also try lots of foreplay so the actual sex is over quicker.

ameillia Due June 26; 2 kids; Winnsboro, Texas 355 posts
25th Mar '13

Lol I might have to try that. Thanks ladies. We did it this afternoon and now on top of the being swollen now I have this sharp pain going through the lower right side of my stomach could sex cause that?

♥Hippie Momma♥ Due July 3; 1 child; Colorado 570 posts
25th Mar '13

God, all i want is sex it seems like. 24/7, DH is the one who's being all anti.... I was like this with my last pregnancy too. Maybe I'm just weird.....

Sarah3rd Due August 5; Savannah, Missouri 1 posts
25th Mar '13

I am also the one wanting it more than him, but that is just the hormones so i just deal with it most of the time

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ♥Hippie Momma♥:" God, all i want is sex it seems like. 24/7, DH is the one who's being all anti.... I was like this with my last pregnancy too. Maybe I'm just weird....."


i was the same way w/my last pregnancy but the added sensitivity ''down there'' sometimes made me just want to ''get mine'' then kick DH off the bed,lol

Melissa Juel Due June 21; 1 child; Glenside, Pennsylvania 135 posts
25th Mar '13

With my DS I didn't even want sex at all.. I could even think about having sex freaked me out... With this one In the beginning all I wanted was sex now I am getting so uncomfortable I do not even want sex but I do it to please my DH and I swell after wards to I take a nice warm bath...

ameillia Due June 26; 2 kids; Winnsboro, Texas 355 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Hippie Momma♥:</b>" God, all i want is sex it seems like. 24/7, DH is the one who's being all anti.... I was like this with my last pregnancy too. Maybe I'm just weird....."</blockquote>




I was that way with my last pregnancy drove my husband nuts. Now he thinks I'm weird cuz I don't want it

UH-LEX-US Due June 9; 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 170 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ameillia:" I have absolutely no interest in sex right now which I know is normal during pregnancy. But I can't ... [snip!] ... I'm already swollen down there and adding sex to it just makes it more uncomfortable. Has anyone else felt this way?"


I made a thread for this earlier. For me, it hurts anything going in, then after it feels like rug burn or something. Right now (29weeks) I don't want to do anything. Even kissing doesn't appeal to me. I been like this since sometime in December, or maybe a little sooner I forgot. My bf understands, but feels unattractive at the same time. I feel bad but at the same time, I don't. I'm going through something, and I have so many symptoms piling up, if I don't want to have sex, oh well. I do try every few weeks but we always end up stopping a few minutes in due to the pain.

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ♥Hippie Momma♥:" God, all i want is sex it seems like. 24/7, DH is the one who's being all anti.... I was like this with my last pregnancy too. Maybe I'm just weird....."


I am the same way!

ameillia Due June 26; 2 kids; Winnsboro, Texas 355 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting UH-LEX-US:</b>" I made a thread for this earlier. For me, it hurts anything going in, then after it feels like rug ... [snip!] ... if I don't want to have sex, oh well. I do try every few weeks but we always end up stopping a few minutes in due to the pain."</blockquote>




Exactly. Its been about a month or so since we've had sex so I feel bad but I have to deal with all the pregnancy issues he can deal with one. I didn't make this baby on my own. It feels like u said a rug burn anytime he goes in and then feels that way for hours after

UH-LEX-US Due June 9; 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 170 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ameillia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting UH-LEX-US:</b>" I made a thread for this earlier. For me, ... [snip!] ... I didn't make this baby on my own. It feels like u said a rug burn anytime he goes in and then feels that way for hours after"


Someone mentioned to me it could be his p***s? Or your own.
And yeah mine burns for awhile after. Peeing feels like acid coming out lol, oh my. He can deal with not having it since I don't feel good, I do feel bad that it makes him feel like I'm not attractive to him though. My legs cramp so bad most of the time, I can't dress, get in and out of the bath alone, or walk, and I pass out after my daughter does (between 8-10) so I just don't wanna deal with it.

SillyBek Due June 23; 17 kids; Utah 307 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Hippie Momma♥:</b>" God, all i want is sex it seems like. 24/7, DH is the one who's being all anti.... I was like this with my last pregnancy too. Maybe I'm just weird....."</blockquote>



Me to! I want it but my man is all wierded out. Not sure if its cuz the baby is in there or if its cuz he not attracted to me with a round belly :-(