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tmi wasnt sure where to post it ❥amber❥~ 2 kids; Goose Creek, South Carolina 869 posts
25th Mar '13

If you are married or have a bf how often does he j**k o*f i looked on his history on his computer from when im asleep and hes been waiting for me to go to bed then he jacks off this really worrys me he hasnt been wanting to have sex lately only wants a blow job and now i find out he has been watching porn every night when i go to bed i feel like im not pleasing him or im not enough for him anymore

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
25th Mar '13

Mine jacks off maybe four times a week? Just because I don't ever want to have sex lol but is weird he dosent want to have sex. I could understand him hiding it if he's embarrassed, but not if he has something to hide...

Man in stockings 1 child; Colorado 2766 posts
25th Mar '13

I would just ask him about it.
After I had my son my husband was like this. We'd have sex 2 nights a week (which was more than he has had in years since i'm never in the mood from my hormone disorder) and every night he wasn't getting any he'd go j**k o*f. It seriously made me cry and feel like crap bc 2 days wasn't enough for him. After I brought it to his attention he actually stopped.

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
25th Mar '13

It's strange that he doesn't want to have sex with you. Could he be addicted to porn?

❥amber❥~ 2 kids; Goose Creek, South Carolina 869 posts
25th Mar '13

the weird part is i always want to have sex and he is the less sexual one but latly he has been jacking ever night almost from the looks of his computer history it makes me feel like im not doing the job for him

saageex3 1 child; New York 5767 posts
25th Mar '13

Are you pregnant or did you just have a baby? If so, maybe he's nervous that you aren't ready or fully healed and he doesn't want to hurt you. The only thing i could suggest is to actually bring it up to his attention and tell him that you noticed and that it bothers you because he can come to you for sex whenever he feels he wants to have it instead of the site.

Samantha ~ 19 weeks Due September 14; 1 child; Rhode Island 4945 posts
25th Mar '13

My SO doesn't j**k o*f but we don't have sex either. We have sex maybe 2 times a month, it sucks :(

❥amber❥~ 2 kids; Goose Creek, South Carolina 869 posts
25th Mar '13

we use to watch porn together but now it seems like after i go to bed he jacks off im ok with him jacking off but why j**k o*f when im in the bed in the next room when ive been horny that is what bothers me

❥amber❥~ 2 kids; Goose Creek, South Carolina 869 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting saageex3:" Are you pregnant or did you just have a baby? If so, maybe he's nervous that you aren't ready or fully ... [snip!] ... noticed and that it bothers you because he can come to you for sex whenever he feels he wants to have it instead of the site."


im pregnant now

Nic-Jaz-Bri Due December 2; 2 kids; Australia 5 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting ❥amber❥~:" If you are married or have a bf how often does he j**k o*f i looked on his history on his computer from ... [snip!] ... out he has been watching porn every night when i go to bed i feel like im not pleasing him or im not enough for him anymore"


My ex husband would do it ATLEAST once a day regardless or if we had sex or not, it was really upsetting and I know exactly how you feel.. But my new partner doesn't do it at all, even deleted the porn he had on his computer, to him I am enough.. But I guess everyone is different.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥amber❥~:</b>" we use to watch porn together but now it seems like after i go to bed he jacks off im ok with him jacking ... [snip!] ... off im ok with him jacking off but why j**k o*f when im in the bed in the next room when ive been horny that is what bothers me"</blockquote>




Tell him that. I couldnt tell you why he does it when he has you... Id be hurt to :/

❥amber❥~ 2 kids; Goose Creek, South Carolina 869 posts
25th Mar '13

there has been a few things bothering me latly we got to talking about what my options are on having the baby like for example birthcenter , at home , or hospital and he got mad and told me that if i didnt go to the hospital that he wouldnt be there :( i cryed and hes like i dont know why your crying umm................because you got me prenant and you wont be there if i dont go to the hospital to have the baby .... my opinion no matter what i chose to do he should be there he is my hubby it should be a discussion between us not him putting his foot down and saying hurtful things like hes not goin to be there if i do go to hospital

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
25th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥amber❥~:</b>" there has been a few things bothering me latly we got to talking about what my options are on having ... [snip!] ... between us not him putting his foot down and saying hurtful things like hes not goin to be there if i do go to hospital"</blockquote>




:/ my husband can say hurtful things Like that to, and then he dosent understand why I'm crying!! Makes me soooo mad

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
25th Mar '13

uh mine never does -- maybe at work? who knows, definitely not at home.



i'll lean over the laptop to put a movie on and he sees my bum and well... yeah. so i wish he'd take some of that teenager-esque testosterone out in his hand.

We are 3♥ ttc#2 TTC since Nov 2013; 1 child; Texas 1626 posts
25th Mar '13

I have no freaking idea if SO does, he's at work from 5-4:30pm and sleeps when he's home. I'd be grossed out if he did it at work, since he works with a bunch of old men.