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Do you *Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11930 posts
26th Mar '13

Scenario...

pretend there is a male who goes to a party and gets drunk...hes never been with a woman...lets just say hes waiting...well he starts talking to a girl there and they are chatting and all of a sudden ..he wakes up its the morning time and he cant recall ANYTHING that happened... he just thinks he drank too much...

well 9m or however long it takes later...he gets a letter in the mail stating he needs to provide a DNA sample for possoble paternity of a child...
he provides his sample and is proved to BE THE FATHER...
the mother takes him for child support...

they go to court and he pleads date rape...since he had never been with a woman and cant recall the events... ( say this is true..he was date raped)

DO you think the father should be held accountable for the child (child support..etc) ? HE doesnt want the child.

or should the mother take FULL responsiblity and raise that child since she drugged the man and raped him?

do you think she should get jail time?

what else should happen to her?

this wild thought came into my head while i was in the shower the other day O.O lol so i just thought i would D&D it!!!

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 33960 posts
status 26th Mar '13

Mother should take full responsibility AND go to jail.
Rape is rape, whether the victim is male or female.



That's fucked up.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:" Mother should take full responsibility AND go to jail. Rape is rape, whether the victim is male or female. That's fucked up. "

This.

ChubbyCheekers 2 kids; New York 3117 posts
26th Mar '13

Yes, she should get jail time. Men can be raped just the same as women can, and if you're too drunk to give consent, it's rape. That said, it would be really hard to prove.

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 122753 posts
status 26th Mar '13

Oh man, thats hard



Did she really drug him though, what if they were both drunk and neither could give consent? Should she really get jail time away from her child for something like that?

If he doesnt want to be a father he should be able to sign his rights over.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:" Mother should take full responsibility AND go to jail. Rape is rape, whether the victim is male or female. That's fucked up. "


yup.

*Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11930 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:" Mother should take full responsibility AND go to jail. Rape is rape, whether the victim is male or female. That's fucked up. "


glad to hear this!!! seriously i hear so much male hatred and its tainted society to believing only males can be the "bad guys"

i would hope this would never happen but then again worse things and crazier things have happened..

who would get the child ?

Van West Auckland, NZ, New Zealand 3179 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:" Mother should take full responsibility AND go to jail. Rape is rape, whether the victim is male or female. That's fucked up. "


:!:

*Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11930 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Oh man, thats hard Did she really drug him though, what if they were both drunk and neither could give ... [snip!] ... away from her child for something like that? If he doesnt want to be a father he should be able to sign his rights over. "


lets just sa she wanted a kid and drugged him...


and i dont think he can just sign his rights away...take for example...2 people get together get both are drunk...woman gets pregnant...it was a 1 night stand ..she keeps the kid...he finds out after its born and the DNA test is done ..he doesnt want it...TOO bad 18 yrs of child support for him...men simply DONT have rights like women do!
she can abort or adopt and he couldnt say anything without a huge fight or huge amounts of money!

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 33960 posts
status 26th Mar '13
Quoting *boobie babies mom*:" glad to hear this!!! seriously i hear so much male hatred and its tainted society to believing only ... [snip!] ... would hope this would never happen but then again worse things and crazier things have happened.. who would get the child ?"


I guess that would depend. If the father actually wanted his rights, he should be able to be part of the child's life. If he didn't he should be able to completely sign over his rights and the mother's family (or the state) should take the child while she serves her time.

*Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11930 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting ChubbyCheekers
❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 122753 posts
status 26th Mar '13
Quoting *boobie babies mom*:" lets just sa she wanted a kid and drugged him... and i dont think he can just sign his rights ... [snip!] ... have rights like women do! she can abort or adopt and he couldnt say anything without a huge fight or huge amounts of money!"


Well then she absolutely should be held to the fullest extent of the law.




I think its crap that they cant sign their rights away, when I woman can get an abortion or put the child up for adoption like you said.

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 33960 posts
status 26th Mar '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Well then she absolutely should be held to the fullest extent of the law. I think its crap that they ... [snip!] ... crap that they cant sign their rights away, when I woman can get an abortion or put the child up for adoption like you said."


:!::!:
Amen.

*Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11930 posts
26th Mar '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Well then she absolutely should be held to the fullest extent of the law. I think its crap that they ... [snip!] ... crap that they cant sign their rights away, when I woman can get an abortion or put the child up for adoption like you said."


yea it really does suck....i hate how the system is and i wish things would change we have WAYYYYY too many women going and getting pregnant just for child support...and wayyy too many gullible men who believe the "im on bc stories!"

its sad...men have no flipping rights! whatesoever!
they just dont.

my close friend had a 1 night stand and he didnt know he was the father until he got his DNA test...he NEVER had the right to say i dont want that kid..it was a foolish night of drinking and never saw the child again until she wanted support...and she got it...18 yrs worth! its just not fair she had the otion to abort or adopt...He was told by the child support lady ...maybe you should have thought about what you were doing before you did something like that...really !
and the woman had 6 other men tested!

GL♣PC♥BC 3 kids; Atlanta, GA, United States 9408 posts
27th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *boobie babies mom*:</b>" lets just sa she wanted a kid and drugged him... and i dont think he can just sign his rights ... [snip!] ... have rights like women do! she can abort or adopt and he couldnt say anything without a huge fight or huge amounts of money!"</blockquote>




Your second scenario is exactly what happened to my husband! One night stand, except the girl was sober (sober sober), he was drunk and she contacted him four months later. Two years later she admitted she wanted to get pregnant and he had no say