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la_mas_hermosa Due July 22; 17 kids; Minneapolis, Minnesota 6095 posts
27th Mar '13

I wouldnt be with SO. I would still be at my job, but more than likely at a higher position and with a lot more stamps on my passport!



I wouldnt be driving a mini van and I would have a lot more hair :(

user banned New York 15996 posts
27th Mar '13

Idk. Honestly I think I'd still be in a party phase and just wanna go out and have fun with friends.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
27th Mar '13
Quoting la_mas_hermosa:" I wouldnt be with SO. I would still be at my job, but more than likely at a higher position and with ... [snip!] ... higher position and with a lot more stamps on my passport! I wouldnt be driving a mini van and I would have a lot more hair :("


lmfao.... i put about having a diff car too...



and my hair :cry: i lose sooo much now because my children are lil heethins

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
27th Mar '13

I would probably be still doing drugs 24/7 but who knows really, I could have gotten over the drugs too and finished school and had an amzing job by now and married etc.....But thats something I dont ever think about it, cause in my eyes having my dd young saved my life :)

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 24270 posts
27th Mar '13

If I hadn't had my son right before I finished college, I think I would have moved to the city. I'm not sure what I would have done. I'd been thinking about a PhD program in psychology, but I always wanted to go to Hollywood after college. I know I would have done one or the other. Sometimes I still get sad that I didn't get to move to the city and DH will never move :( But I love my crazy boys lol

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
27th Mar '13
Quoting Klaus:" If I hadn't had my son right before I finished college, I think I would have moved to the city. I'm not ... [snip!] ... other. Sometimes I still get sad that I didn't get to move to the city and DH will never move :( But I love my crazy boys lol"


i was living in hollywood when i got knocked up with dean... lol

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 24270 posts
27th Mar '13
Quoting DeanJade&Mak's Mom:" i was living in hollywood when i got knocked up with dean... lol"


I've never been to LA, but I've been to San Diego and I loved it there. Not that I ever thought I'd be famous or anything, but I always thought it would be fun to spend a year or two trying to "make it" as an actress, you know? Just as life experience.



I hate Mississippi.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
27th Mar '13
Quoting Klaus:" I've never been to LA, but I've been to San Diego and I loved it there. Not that I ever thought I'd ... [snip!] ... be fun to spend a year or two trying to "make it" as an actress, you know? Just as life experience. I hate Mississippi. "


im from la so it wasnt a huge change for me, but hollywood was awesome... just to live and be there, soo much history and im obsessed with classic old school hollywood lol,



me and my husband go to la jolla every year for our anniversary, i love san diego, were moving back to hollywood when my kids go to college... i will never get over how beautiful and ugly that place is hahaha

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 25084 posts
status 27th Mar '13

I'd probably still be working with sexually abused kids and crying myself to sleep over it. Dd thankfully got me outta that job

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
27th Mar '13

I would still be working at a bar..making fucking nothing..hardly being able to pay my bills and starving just so I could go out and drink every night and make an ass out of myself. (I had gone to school to be a dental assistant before I got pregnant but didn't use the degree) Having my daughter made me strive to do better and be able to provide for her..I know have a job in my field and do not go out partying all the time.



i did however have a dream of back packing through europe and driving cross country before i settled down...so...that will never happen.

Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
27th Mar '13

I would prob be living with friends, drinking and doing drugs every day like i used to. And i hate to say it, but i would prob not have lived for very long.

The Dandelion Rapist 18 kids; New Mexico 6885 posts
29th Mar '13

I often fantasize about how different my life would be if Aaron and I used precautions and actually tried to prevent pregnancy when we started having sex. We weren't trying for a baby but, we weren't doing anything to prevent one. We knew it would happen sooner or later and we were both willing to deal with the consequences.



These fantasies make me feel guilty. I feel as if I am trying to erase my children. But at the same time I try to justify it by thinking to myself, "They would have such a better life had we waited."