Isnt there a native american indian thing they do where they light a wrapped up piece of material thats filled with stuff.
I think its called smudging? It is meant to get rid of anything negative,Ii am pretty sure you can buy it and do it your self.
(I watched long island medium the other day and saw it on there lol).
I don't know about the dreams, but I can talk to you about orbs. One time when I was younger, I was at a friend's house with my sister. There were four of us in the room, my sister, my friend, myself and my friend's grandmother. All of a sudden, a blue orb shot into the room and hovered over the table and then disappeared. I was really young when it happened, around 8 years old but I always remembered it, and everyone saw it. I googled it a while back and it seems that a lot of people see these things. Some think angels, some think aliens, some think some weird electrical current.
<blockquote><b>Quoting jaki.my.ny:</b>" Thanks! I didn't know that about white candles!! My roommate apparently has started having creepy dreams too! Although not sexual so I don't know if it's related yet..."</blockquote>
Yeah I learned that from my ex. If anything it might help u feel better. What kind of dreams is your roommie having?