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user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
29th Mar '13

i would not let him have the car --- are you crazy!?!??! f**k what his "new" wife wants! its your car! #($&@(#&$ that would make me so angry!



as far as the child --- not seeing him since january isnt really that long of a span. i dont know how i would feel with him having him overnight, but he is your child's dad. i hope you guys can work that part out since its for your kid :-)



good luck!!!

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" I don't think there's anything you can do about it then . If he gets the cops involved and you don't give him the car they can get you with Grand Theft and put you in jail and give him your child"


Exactly.

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62941 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Think Bαby:" This was a an agreement he and I made,and since he divorced me via UPS store, there was no where to put ... [snip!] ... lien, mine is not, there is no mention of said car being awarded mine in the divorce, cops will tell me to give him the keys. "


You sad it was awarded to you.

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" You sad it was awarded to you."


I mistyped , I'm very emotional right now. My apologies.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Think Bαby:" Nevada and his name is on the loan. He bought this car in June, left me in September, forced me through divorce proceedings and was happily remarried for the fourth time on Christmas eve."


If your name isn't on anything to do with the car he can takeit and there's nothing you can do about it :(

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" If your name isn't on anything to do with the car he can takeit and there's nothing you can do about it :("


That's why I'm contacting my attorney, we're going to revisit my "divorce settlement" because now I got nothing out of that marriage. I've briefly spoke with him today and he said we have a case, I just need to surrender the vehicle, get a signed document about this "new" vehicle and not allow him an over night visit with our son since it isn't his weekend or holiday. He said I should allow a few hours of visitation but under my supervision.

Mum to a Monster TTC since Jan 2014; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Colorado 11565 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Think Bαby:" I mistyped , I'm very emotional right now. My apologies. "


My best advice to you is to take a little vacation with the car until you can speak to your lawyer on Monday....

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Think Bαby:" That's why I'm contacting my attorney, we're going to revisit my "divorce settlement" because now I ... [snip!] ... with our son since it isn't his weekend or holiday. He said I should allow a few hours of visitation but under my supervision. "


I wish you the best of luck! Try and do everything legal because then you can't be screwed in the end.

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13

He makes me so sick, wasn't making my son fatherless and taking my husband enough?

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
29th Mar '13

Ya, what they said OP.



I would pack my kid in the car and go away for the weekend lol

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" I wish you the best of luck! Try and do everything legal because then you can't be screwed in the end. "


I'm trying to continue to do the right thing, I just hope I'm not being unreasonable when it comes to our son. He's only 4.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Rd.:" Ya, what they said OP. I would pack my kid in the car and go away for the weekend lol"


You could do that also. Shut your phone and hide and be like I'm sorry you were coming down THIS weekend. I'm so sorry We'll have to it again when I'm not so busy!

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting Think Bαby:" I'm trying to continue to do the right thing, I just hope I'm not being unreasonable when it comes to our son. He's only 4. "


YOU'RE NOT! You are doing what is in the best interest of your child. Your son doesn't 'know' him very well. He's young and hasn't seen him in a few months. It could really scare him to be away from you over night.

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
29th Mar '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" You could do that also. Shut your phone and hide and be like I'm sorry you were coming down THIS weekend. I'm so sorry We'll have to it again when I'm not so busy!"


I've already told him this weekend is very inconvenient for us, and I told him I have to work this weekend and I will not be leaving work early to handle this matter.

Meℓissa+1♥ 1 child; ., CA, United States 16720 posts
status 29th Mar '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" Why are you letting him take the car.its your car you earned it in the divorce"


This!!